Good morning! Sorry I’m a bit late. I thought about posting last night, but I’ve got a cold that’s really done a number on me. So I thought it would be best to kick off this post after a fresh cup of coffee and a good night’s sleep.
It’s raining here in Southern California. First time it’s really felt like something besides summer. I love it! I have copy edits to work on and I’m going to work on them in my new family room. I’m going to drop the kids off at school, come home and light a fire in the fireplace, and work. I can’t wait.
My family room isn’t really new. It’s the same one that came with the house when we bought it eight years ago. It’s a room that we never really used, even though it’s off the kitchen and much cooler in the summer than the formal living room. That room used to drive me nuts. I always felt like it was wasted mortgage. Even in the new-house-decorating mania I was in several years ago, I couldn’t seem to make that room work.
Then, a week or so ago, the family and I were in WalMart by the electronics section looking in the discount DVD bins. My husband grabbed my arm and said, “Let’s get that TV” and pointed to a $1500 LCD. I gave him the you’ve-lost-your-damn-mind look and kept on rolling. He insisted. Swore he heard them announce that TV up at the front of the store for $500. I looked at the kids. They shook their heads. None of us had heard it. But hubby has man-hearing, which my son hasn’t grown into yet (you know, the kind that can tune out everything while still picking up on electronics deals and sports scores broadcast from a radio on the other side of the parking lot). Turns out hubby was right. Mongo TV was $500, so we bought it and mounted it above the fireplace in the family room.
The TV position necessitated moving the furniture to face the screen (and therefore the fireplace, which had previously fallen into the trap of being an untapped resource. Many a time I’ve watched shows on HGTV and listened to real estate professionals lamenting homes that had fireplaces and didn’t showcase them properly. I’d scowl and think, “You come over here and figure out what to do with that room! I dare you.”). The change in furniture position opened up more floor space, which necessitated more furniture. The windows needed new curtains, too. And I think the wall below the chair rail needs to be a different color to tie it all in together. After all, it’s now the most popular room in the house. It should look fabulous.
Since the kitchen flows off the family room, I think new tile is in order. And maybe matching tile in the washroom or maybe not. I should probably pick up a new washer and dryer, too. (I’m dying over the Kelly Ripa commercial touting a washer and dryer that can wash AND dry in less than 36 mins…) The new tile in the washroom should probably complement the W and D. Foreclosures in California are over 300%. You can’t give away a home right now. So I figure, why not return to tackling all those projects I wanted to do 8 years ago and lost steam for? Get a pseudo new house out of it.
Well… I didn’t actually lose steam for them. I lost time. I gave it all to my career. Revamping the house just fell by the wayside. Who has time to shop for new tile when a book is due? And pleasure reading? Wassat? Going out without feeling guilty? Who does that?
I’m a magazine hoarder, I’m afraid. I find it hard to throw away magazines. I have nearly 4 year’s worth of RWRs stacked up. Crazy. And yet out of all those issues, one from October 2007 caught my eye when I was cleaning out my office (yes, the family room makeover spread like a cancer). Serendipity is my friend. One of the articles on the cover was “Surviving Your Career.” It was written by some of my favorite authors and it’s full of gems like:
“There are times when you simply have to turn off the computer and leave your career behind while you invest in, pursue, experience or commit to something else. Sometimes the best way to refill the well is to dig deeper, and sometimes you have to build a new well.”
– Connie Brockway
and:
“Our spirits need to be replenished. So the next time you’re having a hard time dragging yourself to the computer, maybe you should ask yourself… What have you done for you lately?”
– Lisa Kleypas
And you know what? An odd thing happened when the makeover bug bit me. Story ideas started popping into my head. Bits of dialogue. Fun scenarios. Not a ton, like I used to get, but still more than I’ve had in a while. How cool is that? I’m thrilled! So is hubby, despite the mile-long Honey-Do list I gave him this weekend. I’m crazy busy with work right now, but from here on out, I’m going to make sure to take more “me” time. Tackle projects and goals I’ve put off for too long. Whatever they happen to be. And to do it without feeling guilty about it.
So, there’s the first item for my New Year’s resolution list! What about you? Do you have anything on your list yet?