My mother tells me all the time how lucky I am.
She’s right, of course. But what she doesn’t factor is how darn much work luck takes.
Last night, I had the privilege to see Bonnie Raitt in concert. I grew up with Bonnie’s music and was thrilled when I scored some incredible tickets to see her. Fifth row, on the aisle. She was so close… I could tell we’d been born in the same decade, more or less. The crowd around was was gray-haired. Time has trickled away…but, for a moment, Bonnie took us back and we were young again.
But what really stuck with me when the concert was over was Bonnie herself. She told us that she had a wonderful room in the hotel where her concert was held. And, out her window, she could see the huge marquee on the street with her name in four-foot letters.
She told us she took a picture of her name in lights.
After 42 years at pretty much the top of the heap in the music business, selling-out concerts all over the world, she still couldn’t believe she’s living her dream.
And, do you know what ‘living her dream’ takes?
Ten months on the road, a different city almost every night, very few days off, and no family time. Forty-one years worth. And she still is amazed she gets to do this for a living.
I know how she feels… sorta.
When I hold a book in my hands, one that I wrote, with my name on the cover…I’m amazed. I still can’t believe it.
Thankfully, my ‘dream’ doesn’t require ten months on the road. But, to be honest, if it did, I would pack my bags. Don’t get me wrong, writing for a living has its price: long hours in front of the computer, nights and weekends, too. Then there’s the time spent promoting, interacting with readers. Dreams filled with characters and ideas that often prod me from sleep and push me back to the computer.
A very small price to pay for a dream.
I really am so very lucky.
And when the burden seems to be too much, I’ll think of Bonnie on the road somewhere. Then I’ll quit whining, grab an appropriate beverage, park my butt in the chair, and power-up the Mac.
When the going gets tough, who inspires you?
For fun, here’s a link to a bit of Bonnie Raitt’s inspiration…a duet with her father, the great John Raitt. Â BONNIE AND HER DAD





















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All luck requires a lot of hard work I think.
I could not imagine being away from my home most of the year.
Luck is a lot of hard work and being in the right place at the right time. in other words, nothing is easy.
Luck…it’s funny, but it’s a word I don’t really like. So, of course, it’s in the titles of all of my novels. but I think the concept of luck devalues hard work….although, I’ve certainly been the recipient of luck a time or two:)
When the going gets tough, I pray. And when it’s no so tough, I pray then, too, in thanksgiving. Baseball great Satchel Paige once wisely said, “Don’t pray when it rains if you don’t pray when the sun shines.”
Thanks for the post.
I’m in science, which–despite what anyone tries to claim– involves a crazy amount of luck: right place, right time, right project –> superstar Ph.D. and science career. You wouldn’t believe the number of Nobel Prizes that are the result of serendipity (followed by hard work… I love my 70+-hour weeks and not remembering the last time I had a weekend or holiday. Not.
).
Now I’ve mostly shifted to writing my dissertation, so those long days/nights/weekends in front of the computer are the story of my life and will continue to be until my defence in June. Is it sad that every once in a while I go into lab for 10+ hours of experiments just to break up the monotony (and get better-looking data)?? And I don’t even want a career in academic science! But, hey, I’m already 6 years in the hole and almost out the other side, so I might as well get that doctorate I’ll probably never use for its intended purpose. I can the most over-qualified/over-educated scuba diving beach bum/world-nomad around, haha.
When that blank page gets me down and I start to think (read: have a nervous breakdown) I’ll never finish it, I just stop to think that a) I could be dead if things had been different with my cancer diagnosis 3 years ago, and b) I could have something serious to worry about instead of these First World foibles, and getting that dissertation written doesn’t seem like such a daunting task anymore.
Speaking of which, I should probably get back to it…
There you go, making your own luck again….
Luck is being in the right place at the right time and that takes work and dedication. Anyone who is “lucky” enough to do the thing they love day in and day out worked hard, sacrificed, and stuck to it until their “luck” finally came through.
Great topic and musing on the subject, Deborah. And I bet Bonnie belts out a hellava concert!
I agree with Silver. There’s a huge element of work and dedication involved with luck. Am I lucky to work from home? Darn right, but I put in my years of commuting and early mornings. Am I lucky to be published? Very much so. And I never forget it! But what people around me forget are the years I spent writing in my spare time and focusing on my goal.
Just found this on facebook: Success comes before work only in the dictionary
We make our own luck — people who get “lucky breaks” usually get them because they’ve worked their butts off to get themselves in the best position for it. I really believe that perseverance and hard work pay off. Is there a luck factor? Karma? The randomness of the universe? Fairy dust? Probably. But we can’t benefit from any uncontrollable stuff if we don’t do what we can to put ourselves in the right position. Sitting in front of the tv doesn’t get your book written.
As far as who inspires me? Mary Higgins Clark, who also had five kids and got up early to write every morning (after her husband suddenly died), then got her kids to school and went to her own job. Stephen King, who was faced with hundreds of rejections but still kept writing. And many more!
As some of you may know, I tackled a roomful of second through fourth graders yesterday, reading to them for Nevada Reads Week. The tagline for the week is “Read it. Dream it. Do it.”
Perfect.
Make your own luck…..and serendipity may come your way, but only if you’re working your ass off!
And, Allison, I only had one child, but it was just us two….for a long time. And after being mom, dad, and bread-winner all day, I’d stay up late to write….because I had a dream.
Am I lucky? More than I ever dreamed. Have I worked hard? harder than I ever thought I could.
And I am grateful that I was ready when opportunity knocked.
Doesn’t matter if you have one kid or five, they need us, and it makes our writing time — and our kid time — both sacred.
Though I will kick the kids out of my office when I have a deadline
My kid is 28…and , to be honest, I’d love to have him back underfoot for a bit….miss those days. As a hands-on mom you feel so attached…so relevant…so anachronistic:)
And, for the record, Allison, you inspire me. I have no idea how you do what you do.
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Hi Deborah,
I would love to see Bonnie in concert! Music is so inspiring. I got a big charge last summer when I went to see U2 in concert. They are one of my favorite bands and do an amazing live show.
I love to hear musicians because they are writers of sorts and put words out there in such a different and creative way. Music is very inspiring to me.
U-2…on my bucket list for sure!!! I love folks who are reaching for the stars….
I so connected with your post. I’m just a small fish right now, but everytime I see a sale I’m amazed someone bought something I wrote. It is hard to believe you are living your dream while it is happening.
We are all just writers hacking our way through the jungle. I can’t believe I get to write for a living–what a dream! Keep chasing yours too…there is nothing better!
My mom inspires me. Everyday when I have struggles or am stressed and tired, I think of my mom. It puts a smile on my face and helps me keep pushing