
BAREFOOT IN THE SAND — out today!!! Start of a new contemporary series!!! RT gave it a 4.5!!! Publisher priced it at lovely $5.99!!! Read it and be happy ever after!!!
Oh, I could go on and on and really turn this into a promo blog, with review quotes and pleas for purchase and more exclamation points than ought to be legal. But I’ve been around here too long for that. In the spirit of what makes Murder She Writes such a special place, I’d like to share with you the answer to that one question we writers get so damn sick of hearing: ”Where do you get your ideas?” Because this time, I actually have an answer.
In the opening scene of my new book, a hurricane rips through the inlet of Barefoot Bay and tears down a fifty year old beachfront house and strips away all the lush foliage of the Gulf Coast island known as Mimosa Key. The heroine and her daughter survive by holing up in a bathtub under a mattress. The scene, I’m sorry to say, took very little imagination for me to write. I’ve been there. On August 24, 1992, one of the worst hurricanes in the history of this country slammed into Dade County, Florida, and changed hundreds of thousands of lives. Mine was one of them.
That day, I was exactly one month pregnant with a baby that had taken four years and a quadrillion deals with God to conceive, so we decided to head just eight miles north to my sister’s house when Hurricane Andrew approached Miami. Despite the fact that the forecasters predicted the storm would turn before making landfall, we worried that our proximity to the coastline made the house vulnerable, and that our east-facing double front doors might buckle with the wind. We braced the doors with the living room sofa (and by we, I mean my husband; I basically stood around and acted hormonal), then we left. Hurricane Andrew was a tight, dry storm, and my sister’s house sustained little damage that night, though freight-train winds ripped her patio screen and took down some beloved trees.
We headed home the next morning and with each passing mile, it was clear that the southern section of Miami had taken the brunt of the 153 mph winds. We sure hoped our sofa held the doors closed.
We still laugh about that because, well, we never did find that sofa.
When we arrived at what we thought was our street — all the trees were uprooted or stripped bare and not a single street sign survived — all we could do was stare. The sofa was long gone (but our neighbor’s love seat was in our driveway!) along with our doors, every window, all the roof tiles, the garage doors, and just about everything we’d ever owned. Everything.
Inside, all the ceilings had collapsed, leaving snow drifts of insulation. My beautiful home was covered in mud, drywall, and broken glass. Every remaining wall was green from the chlorophyll in the leaves that had blown around during what had to have been mini-tornadoes in the house. (I’d love to show you a picture, but this was pre-digital and we gave every picture to the insurance company. This book cover from The Miami Herald’s photo essays is a fairly good image of our neighborhood, which was in the path of the storm’s northern eye wall.)
I’ll never forget how I stood in the midst of that wreckage and started to cry. I shook, in shock, barely able to process the sight of my rain-soaked wedding album and shattered bits of my precious Waterford crystal.
Everything we had was gone.
Then my husband gripped my shoulders, gave me a stern shake and shut me up with two words: The baby. The baby. (Oh, I think he might have said “Oh f***!” when he saw what used to be his Porsche in what used to be the garage.)
Of course, he was right. The baby was all that mattered and he was safe and sound in my tummy. (As you know, we did NOT name him Andrew.) Stuff doesn’t matter. It’s the people left behind — and how they rebuild their lives — that is the legacy of a disaster.
So, when I needed the catalyst to set Lacey Armstrong’s story in motion and start the Barefoot Bay series, the lessons I learned from surviving and rebuilding after a hurricane were still fresh in my heart, even almost two decades later. It wasn’t hard to imagine riding out that storm in a bathtub; I had many friends and neighbors who did just that. It wasn’t impossible to put myself in Lacey’s shoes the next day, digging for optimism in a mountain of rubble.
But I also had twenty years of perspective and knew that no matter what nature threw at Lacey, she could come out the winner. Barefoot In The Sand is the story of second chances and, of course, true love. Because there is a certain younger, sexy architect who shows up to help Lacey rebuild…and he’s as good at taking down emotional walls as he is at building new ones. (That so didn’t happen to me, but, for the record, our builder was really, really cute. I almost *did* name Dante after him, LOL! Valentino Sanchez. Sigh.)
With the “hometown” (for me) Florida beach setting, the hurricane opener, and the girlfriends from college who remind me so much of my own dorm buddies, the Barefoot Bay quadrilogy is close to my heart. And, you might notice, it’s a departure from romantic suspense…which brings me to my moment of bittersweet news. Speaking of departures…
Regulars here know that I have been at this blog every other Tuesday for three and a half years. It’s been an amazing, wonderful, delightful opportunity to share my writing life and my personal insights with so many special friends in this community. I’ve had the chance to meet dozens of our regulars, and have forged real friendships with many of you. And don’t even start me on my nine fellow bloggers. These talented, warm, funny, and generous women have become like treasured family and I love them like I love my own sisters.
However, I have some very daunting deadlines stacking up in the next year. I don’t see a lot of breathing space in 2012, and that means I’ve had to make some very difficult choices. Sadly, I’ve decided to stop blogging and use the hours to write more Barefoot books and another YA. (And let’s not forget Gabe still needs a book — not like my readers would let me!) So, my dear, dear friends, this is my last regular blog at Murder She Writes. I have no doubt my fabulous MSW sisters are cooking up a riveting replacement, most likely a person truly writing “murder” in her books.
To celebrate my three and a half remarkable years and the release of BAREFOOT IN THE SAND, I’ll be giving away FOUR copies of my new book today! Leave a comment about any disaster you’ve overcome (natural or otherwise) or just pop in to say goodbye. But don’t you dare make me cry!
Thank you for every comment, every click, every chance to share my writer’s life here at Murder She Writes. I love you all!!
xoxo
Rocki


















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I’m going to miss your blogs here at MSW! But, the selfish side wants you to be out there writing so I can be reading more of your books!!!
We lived in Miami post-Andrew and thankfully our time there was hurricane free. I’ve seen the pictures of my friend’s house (her family stayed to ride out the storm) and she says it was a hell she wouldn’t wish on anyone.
Barefoot Bay downloaded overnight (yay!) so no need to enter me in the contest. Wishing you truly great things for the future!
Thank you, Kris! I really appreciate the support. And you were the first to alert me of some very exciting news: BAREFOOT IN THE SAND also releases in ebook today!!! Usually, my publisher holds it until the first of the following month (making this officially a “May” book) but they didn’t and I AM SO HAPPY about that! So thank you! I’ll miss you, too! xo
Happy Release Day Roxanne! I love knowing the background of what inspired an author to write a book. What an amazing story. I’ll be missing your blog posts but understand an author having to balance everything that must be done.
I have your wonderful book already so don’t enter me. Awesome meeting you at RT!!
Thank you, Mary! You’re the best! Yes, there’s a lot of balance going on and sometimes the scales just tip in the wrong direction. I appreciate all the understanding and support! xo
Rocki Congrats on the new series. Can’t wait to start reading. Although, I must get out and run first!
I wish you a boatload of success with all your new ventures. BB is going to be great, Will keep waiting for my YA news. Gabe—-ahhh, well….ya, we all feel the same about that man
Happy writing and don’t forget to take time to get out and shop!!
Thank you, Catherine. I love taking time out to shop…no need to remind me! LOL! Stay well and good luck with everything! xo
What a great (awful?) backstory to inspire a new series!
La la la can’t hear you about leaving the blog. Sniff sniff. But I know this will be the best thing for your writing.
Congrats on the new release
BIG congrats on the launch of your new series! You’ll be missed on MSW, I’m sure, but I totally get the need for more time. Who couldn’t use more of that?
Thanks, Kristen. I appreciate how you always comment and add your special humor to my posts! xo
Thank you, Lori. Getting to know you via MSW has been one of the absolute highlights of my time here. You’re amazing. xo
Happy Release Day Roxanne! Love hearing how authors are inspired – what an amazing story. I’ll miss your blog posts but understand all that authors must do. Awesome meeting you last week at RT
Thank you, Mary! I feel like I knew you before I met, but know I know your pretty smile and infectious laugh. You’re awesome! xo
Rockie not going to make you cry but I do know about hurricane’s been there went though Jenny
I went with friends to south miami to help feed them what a shame I live if fl too so I know
Now I going to miss reading your blog every other tuesday
I have read all books will love your new one thanks for all of good reads
Sue
My darling Sue! You are such a great friend, loyal reader, and true fan! I will see you, soon, I promise. xoxoxo
I haven’t been through a huge disaster other then the freak ice storm in Quebec , Canada where we used to live; we could see the electric poles falling down, power disappearing, cold getting colder. We lived by a little pot stove we had in our basement, cooking and heating for us 24 hours a day for almost 3 weeks. It was cold!!! Sleeping on the floor in sleeping bags.
I am sorry to see you leave but maybe you can come back once every thing settles.
Brrr. Just picturing that makes me cold! Thanks for the good wishes – stay warm! Read a beach book!!!
xo
Best wishes and I will miss your posts but wish you great health, happiness and much success. Enjoy this time and congratulations and best wishes. I am battling right now and will overcome.
Thank you, Ellie. You are in my prayers…win this battle! xo
:HUGS: I’m so sorry to see you go. I’m so glad the gals invited you to join. If they hadn’t, I never would’ve experienced your wit and warmth, and I never would’ve gotten around to reading any of your wonderful books. I hope the year to come brings you everything you need and the occasionally space to breathe.
No real disasters here. I do live in Kansas-lite, though, so the threat of tornadoes is a summer-long thing. I guarantee in the next month or so, we’ll get at least one near miss. Keep your fingers crossed for me that it stays a miss and doesn’t hit.
Oh, B.E., it’s bee GREAT getting to know you. I love your comments and enthusiasm. And, yes, Kansas is tornado country. Be careful! Miss and love you, xo
I guess my huge disaster was actually having my 3rd and final baby. He is now almost 19 but we both almost died during his birth. He made it out of thecwoods before I did and I spent 3 months in the hospital having him. The health problems have been very ongoing and to this day I still have major health issues. But my son is my baby and he is great!!!! No lasting effects for him. He’s a good kid and I can not imagine if he were not here.
Good luck with future endeavors and God speed!!!
Oh, Vicki, I have my own just-turned-19 year old boy, so I can only imagine how tough that was/is. Hugs to you and him. Thanks for the love and support! xo
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!! (some exclamations points are needed – just because!) Love your books and your blogs. Hope you meet your deadlines. Good luck!
I live in Tornado Alley. When I was still a kid, we had a Tornado and a Flood hit our neighborhood in the same night. Spent Part of the time in the attic because of rising waters. We were “rescued” by a neighbor in his fishing boat-flat bottomed aluminum. I remember looking out over the water and seeing that the snakes were fleeing the area faster than we were in the boat. Even the trolling moter was dangerous because the waters were filled with cars, and mailboxes, and shrubbery and you know, houses and the like.
Water after it sits for long periods leaves a nasty mess. Slimey mud, sodden, swollen sheetrock, carpet – just yuck. The smell!
One funny thing that I remember though – catching fish-perch – in my bedroom, with my bare hands! They made us smile and a day with very few smiles.
After all these years, the odd fears that stick with me. . . I am not friendly with boats and I do NOT like snakes.
And, Ice Storms. We have those here too. They can take out electricity for weeks. UGH!
Again, Good luck with the writing. Mabye you can “guest” a blog when you have big news or somehting.
Good heavens, Marcia — that belongs in a book! Fishing in your bedroom with your bare hands! Thank you for the exclamation points (they are my friend, as you all know!!!) and the love. I will definitely be back to guest blog!! xo
This Saturday the 27th marks one year since the tornadoes that ripped Alabama apart. We didn’t just have one; we had bunches. All. Freaking. Day. Long. The worst one went just a mere 5 miles north of me. My apartment complex lost shingles and a couple trees, but that was it. The storm did take out the entire power grid for this area, and bless TVA, they rebuilt it completely in 6 days. That’s the same number of days I was without power. But I’m alive, my friends are alive, my family is alive.
So sorry to see you leave MSW but I can totally understand why. I can’t wait to get a copy of Barefoot in the Sand. Keep writing your fabulous books for me to fill my Roxanne St. Claire Honorary Shelf with.
Was that a year ago!? I remember so well what you and our Deb Webb (and so many others) endured. Mother Nature does have her temper tantrums, doesn’t she?
I love that Honorary Shelf! I’m so proud of it — thank you. xo
Rocki, congrats on the new book release! I just picked it up on Kindle. Looking forward to reading it.
I’ve lived in Florida my entire life so I’ve been through my share of hurricanes. Even still, I’ll take a hurricane over tornado any time. And there have been way too many of those of late. My heart goes out to all those who have been hit by disaster.
The one thing I’ve found about disasters is that you come away changed. Mine wasn’t caused by physical ruin, but when my son was eighteen months old and I learned he had a genetic abnormalty which makes him mentally handicapped.
But I’m sure in your book, with your amazing talent, Lacy comes through it all in the best possible way. Wishing all the best with this new series!
Oh, Laurie, you are a constant inspiration to me with your son. And, yes, tornadoes beat hurricanes for Fear Factor — so sudden and scary. I can hear the Patrick AFB tornado alarm go off when there are bad storms, and, whoa, that is a terrifying sound.
Thank you for getting the book and for all the support over the years. Don’t worry, STAR isn’t getting rid of me anytime soon! xo
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Marilyn and all – we have been experiencing a weird comment/spam filter glitch for days. A lot of comments have been trapped in moderation, but I’ll be releasing all day, so don’t worry if yours doesn’t show up immediately! Dang technology! xo
Just wanted to pop in and say I’ll really miss your fabulous blog posts here.
As you must know, I adore you and every single thing you write. That will never change. Ever!
And I’m especially excited that I don’t have to wait a week to get your new book on my Kindle.
Hugs,
Lara
Oh, my partner on the Bad Girls side of the table. You haven’t heard the end of me, darling. xo
Congrats on your new release. Wish you the best of luck. I will miss your blogs here at MSW. Just know you have a loyal reader behind you.
It was awesome to meet you at the rt convention
Maria E.
Thank you, Maria! It was meeting people like you at RT that made this decision so hard. Loyal MSW readers who’ve seen (way) into my life and heart. It was great to meet you, too! xo
::HUGS:: I have loved reading your blogs and your books for the past few years. I will certainly miss your regular entries in the MSW universe.
I wish you all the best.
Thank you, toni! You’ve been an awesome part of my ride here at MSW. I’ll miss you, too! xo
Congratulations on release Day! I know the book is great and will do wonderful!
Never been in a hurricane never want to be near one. Tornadoes are bad enough. Been through a number of them. The last one that was really close was in 98 when I was working as mixed animal vet. I was the only one at the clinic that day. The tornado went skipping over the town, blowing down/uprooting large tree and limbs, power lines. I was just going to check on my house when the bosses kids called… the farm had been hit, cows were on the road, and the barn was damaged. So we corralled the cows in a make shift pen. The boys then told me the show calves were still in the barn… the barn that was collapsed. I sent the younger boys to do something else as I tried to get into the barn. I managed to get to where the calves were tied. Fortunately they were in a pocket safety, the beams were at just the right angle to keep the rest of the building off of them. But to get them out we were going to have to move and cut things. After calling in reinforcements we did manage to get them out. The last calf out had to be sedated as he became overly anxious with chain saw buzzing near him.
The town was with out power for over a week… and I did have to go on other calls where the animals did not fair as well, but that is life in Tornado alley.
Still cannot imagine a hurricane though.
Wow, Linda, what a story. The animals go through trauma, too, in those times, and don’t have any idea why. Did you find a home for those Yorkies yet? *sniff* *want* xo
Congrats on the release of Barefoot. We will miss your blogs. Your .blogs were always full of humor and encouragement for both writers and readers. You will be missed. Hopefully.we can still find you on Facebook? And of course we will eagerly wait for your books. Good luck with everything you have coming up.
Thanks, Trish! Of course you can find me on FB! Just go to http://www.facebook.com/roxannestclaire and I will be all kinds of witty and wise. I hope! Thanks for all your comments and support! xo
Congrats on the new release. Can’t wait to read it. Plus so looking forward to the books you are working on.
You shall be missed but luckily we will still have your wonderful books to read. Thank God.
Wishing you nothing but the best.
Thank you so much, Holly. I hope I made a little impact here, but I know you all will continue to be entertained, informed, and amused! Really appreciate the love! xo
Grats on the release! Sad to see you go but completely understand and look forward to your future books!
We’re military and in ’05 moved to Alaska. Shortly after arriving my Saint Bernard died of cancer, a month after that my husband was diagnosised with Stage 4 Non Hodgkins Large Diffuse B Cell Lymphoma at 26 years old. On May 14th he celebrates his birthday(second birthday), 6 years remission, and is now considered cured! He has chemo brain, side effect from high doses of chemo but I’ll take that over the alternative!
Take care and hope to read MANY new books in the future!!
Oh, Sabrina, you DID make me cry. My very best childhood BFF (I’ve blogged about her on this very site) has that same form of lymphoma right now. She’s in chemo treatment and it’s really, really hard on her. Your post gives me so much hope and joy! Thank you! That was really a little gift for me! So proud of you for weathering life’s toughest storms! xo
I’m sorry to hear about your friend, my thoughts and prayers are with you both. Thankfully the treatment for it has come a LONG way and is extremely promising! It has even changed since hubby has his, the chemo is not as harsh now.
Looking forward to hear she celebrates her second birthday next year!!
WOWOWOW, Rocki! Talk about a creative nudge!
What a vision that must have been! I’ve seen tornadoes outside my window, and I’ve been shook, rattled and rolled by earthquakes, but I’ve been saved from this type of personal loss.
Thanks for sharing. This essay truly gets to the kernel of genius (especially in your case).
With awe and respect
– Josie
Didn’t you just have a Cali earthquake yesterday? I guess that was down south. Those are REALLY scary! Thanks, Josie. I hope you have as much fun here on our blog as I have! It’s been great getting to know you better! xo
Happy Release Day! On one hand I’m sad that I won’t be able to enjoy your blog posts anymore, and on the other hand I’m a greedy reader who is excited for more of your books! All the best Rocki!
Thanks, Nicole. I happen to love greedy readers! xo
Rocki I am so excited for you and this new series! I’m going to dig out my Nook and download it today. I hope you hit a big fat list with this one, you deserve it and so much more.
When I woke much too early this morning the first thing I thought of was you and what you were going to let our followers know today, and I felt like I was kicked in the stomach. I didn’t realize just how much I was going to miss you here until it was time you were standing at the door with your bags packed.
I wish you well in all of your endeavors and while I know you will be around it won’t be the same without you.
xo
Karin, did you miss the “don’t make me cry” part? I’m going to miss you so much, you know. We might not be blog sisters, but we will ALWAYS be friends. After the Onion Ring Incident, nothing can tear us apart. xo
Oh no! No more blogs from you
I’m sad, but since it means you’ll be writing more I’ll accept it :p Looking forward to your new books!
Thank you, Jen! I am already hard at work on Barefoot #3. And by hard at work, I mean staring at Page One. xo
I’m crying. I’m going to miss you.
I’ve already ordered my copies of BAREFOOT for both me and my mom. And maybe for a friend or two … Your books make me smile.
Aw, Allison. I feel like Dorothy in the goodbye scene when she reaches the Scarecrow. “I’m gonna miss you most of all.” Shoot, now I’m getting weepy. You are and will always be one of my dearest friends in this business and in life. And I love your mom, the world’s greatest reader!! Thank you for bringing me here and helping me through lots of personal storms.
CONGRATS ON SILENCED — OUT TODAY!!! EVERYONE DOWNLOAD BOTH BOOKS!!
xoxo
Rocki,
Congrats on your new release! How exciting!
Although I’ve been a lurker here at this blog, I enjoyed your blog entries. I hope you’ll keep in touch with your fans like via Fb and Twitter, when time allows. Good luck with your deadlines.
As for disasters, I haven’t experienced to report. Good luck, godspeed and keep in touch whenever possible! XOXO
P.S. Keep those books coming. I would love a copy!
Thank you, Kristen! I appreciate you coming out of lurk to say goodbye…and I really enjoy following you on Twitter. You are working hard and I hope you get your break SOON! xo
Oh, Rocki…..I’m going to miss you on MSW so much. You have inspired me with my writing…I have printed out some of your blogs and they are in my “extra special blog post binder” that I keep with posts that help me through my writing hurdles. Thank you so much for that.
Wow, and Hurricane Andrew. What an experience. What a wonderful thing for your husband to turn to you and say, “the baby.” That is a special memory.
As for a disaster, my brother’s house burned down in the wildfires we had out here in CA in 2003. He has 10 kids, was out on a grocers strike at work, had a son who had just been diagnosed with epiipesy and then the house burned down with most of their belongings with it. But, they were all safe, and they rebuilded and moved forward.
I’m looking forward to reading “Barefoot in the Sand.” Good luck with your writing and deadlines!
Oh, Linda, I’m humbled to have inspired you and so touched that you’ve printed out some of my blogs. Thank you. It’s readers and writers like you who make this little corner of the internet such a great place to hang out.
I remember those wildfires! They were very close to my brother’s house and we were worried. I’m so sorry for what your brother and his family had to endure — glad to hear they rebuilt.
Thanks again for being such a loyal friend and fan! xo
We are really going to miss you but we do understand.
I can remember going through a flood with my girlfriend. We stepped off of her front porch into a boat to get out.
So far the worse thing that happened where I am not is an ice storm that put us without power and heat for a week. I really don’t want to go through that again but at least now I am more prepared for it then the last time.
Thanks, QL! It’s been fun seeing your comments all the time and I thank you for being such a loyal follower of the blog. And, yikes, you really don’t know how much you need power until it’s gone. We lost ours over the weekend for about four hours and there was an ungodly amount of complaining. (By my husband, ahem.) xo
I will miss you so much on here! I hope you still have time to keep in touch on Twitter so we know how you are doing!
It’s because of Murder She Writes I discovered you (Allison Brennan tweeted to come check out a post you wrote, so I did- and thought you were AWESOME!) I may or may not have gone out that day to buy a few of your books. FYI, when my friends and I see a hot guy, we call him a potential Bullet Catcher.
I guess the biggest “natural disaster” I survived were the tornadoes that hit Dallas a few weeks ago. One touched down about 2 miles from my apartment and another touched down one exit up from my office building (we were in our storm rooms for an hour during that). THANKFULLY there were no deaths during those storms, we were really blessed. Material things can be replaced.
Next time you are in Dallas let me know, I’ll buy you a drink! Take care friend!
XO,
Rachel (I feel I’m only known as Averyfan)
Rachel! You made my day with the Bullet Catcher comment. My daughter and I say that, too. What a compliment to have created the Epitome of Hot Guys for some.
You are a dear friend and much, much more than “Averyfan” to me. We shall stay in touch AND have that drink, I promise! xo
My disaster has been more mental than physical with the loss of stuff. It’s been dealing with my daughter’s mental illness as it escalated after my husband died. I had to re-learn handling things on my own, changing my own perceptions of mental illness and becoming more resilient myself. All good lessons but difficult at the time. Will miss your blogs.
Oh, Carol, those kind of disasters take a lot more soul and steel to weather than nature’s bad mood. I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this and will say a prayer for your daughter. You ARE resilient! Thanks for being such a great commenter and part of my world here at MSW! xo
What a beautiful post, Rocki! Amazing to hear how you and your husband faced up to such a shattering loss by counting your blessings. And now twenty years later you have used the same event to inspire a whole new series.
Congratulations on BAREFOOT IN THE SAND!!!! I can’t wait to read it.
I am going to miss you so much here at MurderSheWrites, but I have no doubt we will keep in touch. Wishing you all the best with an exciting year of writing ahead. Again, congrats!
Thanks, Laura! I know you had a similar experience with your mother’s being a witness to the UT shooting and turning that into the premise for a book. And, yes, we will stay in touch and cheer each other on through this crazy business! xo
I have never experienced a hurricane or a tornado for that matter. We do get tornado’s in MI but in all my years I’ve never witnessed one. What we get is ice and snow. Those things have created havoc around here but for us mostly just power outages where we build a fire in the fireplace and hope to god we don’t freeze to death. lol I can’t imagine coming home and seeing my house and all my neighbors houses gone. I am betting a picture doesn’t do it justice when you’ve seen it in person. Rocki I know I’ve said this before but i LOVE your posts. You have a definite writers talent and i am glad to be able to enjoy it. I’m happy for you and all your accomplishments. I really hope that you might be able to pop in a time or two and guest post still. This is one of my favorite blogs to frequent and you being here is one of the reasons why. Now go write me some Gabe please. lol
Lisa B
Congratulations Roxanne!
You sound elated & rightly so….
Thanks, Janet. I’m excited, but sad to be leaving, of course! xo
I spewed my strawberry-kiwi flavored water at that last line! I will, I promise!!
Thank you so much for your kind words, Lisa! It’s been such an honor and pleasure to be here for all these years, and to get to know new friends and readers like you! xo
This was supposed to be connected to Lisa B’s comment. I was so tickled about Gabe, I misclicked. Yes, that’s a word. xo
First, I have already downloaded both yours and Allison’s new books because, duh, y’all are fabulous writers and I’m always champing at the bit to get whatever it is you write next. Which might possibly console my broken heart that you’re leaving. At least for the length of time it takes to read it. But dammit, woman, you are going to be missed.
Thank you, Toni. You have made this adventure COMPLETELY fun. I love your insights, your humor, your…you. I just love you! xo
Sorry to see you go, Roxanne. At least it’s because your writing is going well.
Jan. 6, 2001, I came home to find my apt. building severely damaged by fire. They found two of my cats but one was missing. Later on, in the dark with flashlights, I was allowed into my apt. to get medicine and valuables. I was just about to leave when I heard a sound from under the bed, where I had tried to look, there was cat #3.
I always said the only things important to me were the people and pets in my life and having lost just about everything (in my case more to smoke and water damage) found it was true.
While upsetting, I had renters insurance. I can not express how important it is to dig up the money for insurance. It made the following days so much easier. I don’t live month to month like supposedly 70% of Americans do, but it was hard enough for me. Many of the other tenants were devastated because they had no insurance and couldn’t scrape together the deposit for a new apt. much less the items they had to replace. And with kids on top of that…I shudder.
Oh, Anne, fire is just The. Scariest. Thing. Hugs. And, yeah, insurance. Our company was amazing — really generous and helpful in the midst of complete chaos. They paid for everything. Then they dropped our asses. Bad State Farm. xo
Ah
we’re going to miss you. I’m looking forward to reading Barefoot in the Sand, all of you ladies here at Murder She Writes are certainly keep my reading que full.
The worst disaster I’ve experienced was the 1994 Northridge, CA earthquake. We lived a mile from the epicenter at the time. It’s been 18 years since it happened and I can still remember ever detail of that morning from the intial jolt to the end that seemed like it would never come, like it was yesterday.
A mile from the epicenter?!? Holy cow, that had to be terrifying. And zero warning — that’s the scary thing. I remember much smaller earthquakes when I lived in L.A. and how those 45 seconds would seem like FOREVER. I can’t imagine what you went through! Hugs! And thank you! xo
Well… I don’t know what to say, really. I’m gonna miss your blog posts! Not you, really, because we talk all the time, and I’m your beta reader and your cyber daughter and we talk all the time! But your posts are funny and insightful and real and always such a great, great writing lesson for an aspiring author like me. So, I’m going to miss that!
You know how much I admire you! And how much I just ADORE Barefoot in the Sand. I think you’re such a strong, amazing person, and that’s a helluva a story. I just can’t imagine going through what you did, having to start anew. One thing I’ve been saying about Lacey all along is how “realistic” she is. Well…
I’ve never survived a disaster… like that.
I’m SO excited today is BAREFOOT IN THE SAND day! I really, really love this book and it’s finally out! Yaaaay!!! You did such a great job in this book, Rocki!
Also, I love you! <3
Barbie-doll, you are a great beta reader, a lifelong friend, and a true and constant supporter of this blog. And, wow, do you love BAREFOOT almost as much as I do!
Oh, and you have survived plenty of emotional storms, child.
Thank you for always being there for me! I love you right back! xo
Rocki,
Like others, I’m torn. More terrific Murder She Writes columns? Or more great Roxanne St. Claire books? Why, oh, why does there have to be a choice?
Know that we’ll miss you and that Murder She Writes won’t be the same without you.
But, having just downloaded Barefoot in the Sand to my Nook (thank you, for the early e-release!), I’m eager to read it and looking forward to more of your fabulous books. Yay!
Leigh
Thank you, Leigh! It was a tough decision – I love this blog. But I needed more hours in the day/week, so I dug for them here. Thank you for being such a good friend and a regular at the blog! (And a guest poster extraordinaire!) xo
I agree, it’s about the people left behind and how they rebuild their lives. A daunting task that I can only imagine can takes its toll on a person, but it can also give back in strength.
I already wanted to read Barefoot in the Sand and after reading the personal inspiration I wanted to read it even more. Wishing you tons of success Rocki!
Thank you, Na! And thank you for being such an integral part of our community. Love your comments! xo
Oh, Rocki! I shall miss you here! We’ll stay in touch, I’m sure, but…but…. *sniffle*
I live in the middle of tornado alley, but I made it through, and worked the aftermath with an SAR team, of the May 3rd tornado where the size of it completely rewrote the Fujita scale. While I didn’t have any damage personally, I worked in neighborhoods where houses had been scrubbed bare to the foundations. It’s devastating to see. Glad y’all decided to head inland! And that Dante and his sister came safely into the world.
Please come back to keep us updated. Please pass along, in the occasional guest post, your wit and wisdom. And PLEASE GET GABE OUT OF MOTHBALLS!!!! *ahem* Thank you.
Gabe…in nothing but mothballs. Geez, you inspire me, woman. We are friends forever, Silver. You were my right hand (and left, as I recall) at a crazy signing!! Thanks.
And, whoa, on those tornadoes. Season’s upon us again – be safe. xo
Happy release day, Rocki!
I’m so sorry to see you go.
Maybe you can toss some of your writing dedication my direction!
Thank you, Margaret! A round of inspiration for everyone! xo
Happy pub day Rocki! Barefoot looks like a great read. I will miss reading your post, but am excited at that you will have more time to write!! Good luck.
Oh Rocki,
I miss you already! I know this was a tough choice and I wish you all the best. Perhaps the MSW crew will have you back for a few guest posts?
I understand exactly what you mean about hurricane Andrew. I grew up in south Louisiana, and lived through several strong storms there. By 1992, I was in Houston. When Andrew left Florida, he headed back into the Gulf, then up through south Louisiana. I was a nervous wreck waiting to hear how my family made out. The storm had weakened, but was still strong enough to do damage. They were fine, (thank you God) but Mom said, “Never again.” When later hurricane threats came, they evacuated.
Here in Houston, we’ve had our own hurricane scares. In 2010, we left as Hurricane Ike approached. There we were in two cars—five adults, two newborn infants, a dog and a ferret. It was an interesting time.
The ferret would have most likely put me over the edge! You are a doll, LSU, and so much a part of the MSW community that YOU should guest post sometime. I’m sure I’ll be back…my heart is here! xo
Oh no! *cries* I will miss your blog posts!
But on a happier note…. CONGRATULATIONS on your new book! It sounds absolutely fantastic and I can’t wait to read it!
Thank you, Chelsea. It IS fantastic, trust me! LOL. Thanks for your kind words – I appreciate the support! xo
Congratulations on your new book and good luck on all your projects! I will miss your posts, they are always so positive.
Thank you, Maureen. As my dad used to say – positive beats the alternative! xo
Having lived on both coasts, I’ve been through earthquakes, tornadoes and hurricanes. I am happy to say (better find some wood to knock on) that I have had very little damage in any of those disasters. The worst was the “Inauguration Day Windstorm” in WA state (Bill Clinton’s first inauguration 1993) when some trees in our backyard toppled over, taking part of our septic system with them. Then there was the time one of our trees fell through our next door neighbor’s bonus room…but I guess that was more their problem than ours. Fortunately, they were really nice about it! I’ve certainly not come close to your experience (better find that wood…).
I will certainly miss reading your blogs here at MSW. I’ve enjoyed them tremendously and look forward to reading all the books that you will now have more time to write!
Good luck!
Larri
Thank you, Leigh! It was a tough decision – I love this blog. But I needed more hours in the day/week, so I dug for them here. Thank you for being such a good friend and a regular at the blog! (And a guest poster extraordinaire!) xo
Having lived on both coasts, I have been through earthquakes, hurricanes and tornadoes. Fortunately, I haven’t experienced anything on the level that you have. The worst would have to be the “Inauguration Day Storm” in 1993 when two huge trees in our backyard toppled over, taking part of our septic system with them. Or maybe the time one of trees fell through our next door neighbor’s roof causing about $30K worth of damage-they were so sweet about it, I think I was more freaked out than they were.
I will miss reading your blogs here at MSW. I have enjoyed them tremendously. However, I look forward to reading all the books you’ll have more time to write! Best of luck, Rocki!
Larri
Funny, I was just eyeing one of my neighbor’s trees, thinking what damage it could do to our house. Not sure I’d be sweet about it! Thanks for sharing, and for the good wishes, Larri! So appreciated! xo
Trust you, to blow out the day like this in such style.
I was in the ER w/The Mother all night & have been catching up with stuff this afternoon and suddenly thought “Oh! It’s Tuesday. Rocki should be up on MSW!”
I’ll miss your posts here, as they are always a trip and never not inspiring one way or another (double negative anyone?). I was re-reading the MSW novella in the ER around 3:30 AM this morning with the hot lemme-just-warm-you-up-but-really-only-to-save-your-life-babe lovin’ in the freezer scene and thought, “sheds, freezers. what is it with you and sex in small places, Rock?” and knew that would make you grin.
Also? GABE.
I feel nothing less than blessed to know you, to benefit personally from your insights, experiences, and investment. Life is funny, isn’t it? You never know who’s going to impact it or how or when that might happen. So glad I was paying attention when you slammed into mine. One might even say you rocked me like a hurricane.
Now go on. Bring us that horizon.
Ah, Kiersten…I was thinking of you when I wrote about people I’d met through the blog (or was it twitter — how DID we meet?) and how we’ve become friends. You are so alive and fun, your words jump right off the page every time I see your name in the social media world.
Sorry you visited the ER with your mom (everything okay?) but I laugh with you about my penchant for Small Squeeze Sex. Must be some fantasy fulfillment for me, huh? I do love me some forced proximity!
Stay gorgeous, funny, happy, and MY FRIEND on the internet and in life! xo
Rocki, I’m so going to miss you here at MSW but the thought of more of your books will sustain me somehow.
My husband (Mr. Cop) was working in Oakland in 1991 during the Oakland Hills Firestorm. He came home (3 days later) with tales of melted lights atop the police cars, of rescuing people stranded in the hills, of homes on fire and gone in minutes. He was on the news and you could hear in his voice that the devastation was too much to even comprehend. While it was happening it didn’t seem like anything would stop it. They thought the freeway could be a firebreak and it jumped it like it was nothing. Afterward there was just scorched earth and fireplace chimneys standing.
Oh, a true hero in a disaster. That beats moving the Sofa That Was Never Seen Again. Fire, as I said upthread, is the scariest disaster of all. Glad he’s okay! Thanks for your good wishes, Jill. You’re a doll! xo
Rocki, your final MSW post is among your best ever. And have you noticed that a lot of your Barefoot reviews reference that hurricane opening scene? The gut-wrenching authenticity of emotion in that chapter can’t help but connect with readers. As you know, I loved the whole book, and I’m so so so excited for readers to get their hands on it today!
Now get back to writing…
Oh, Louisa, you’re so sweet. I hope everyone comes to our Joint Book Club in May on FB (courtesy of Grand Central/Forever publishing) where we will co-discuss our latest releases…that both touch upon different aspects of motherhood.
Thanks for coming and commenting so regularly when we all know you’ve already heard everything I’ve ever had to say. Twice. xo
Happy release day! It’s currently vying for top TBR status with Allison’s book– I’m thinking of reading one chapter of each until I’m done so as not to play favourites
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Definitely sorry to see you leave the blog! But at least there are upsides– and, yes, Gabe definitely needs his book. Besides, you’re sharing custody of me with Toni when I graduate (I’ll come with a doctorate by then, haha), so it’s not like I’ll be completely deprived
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Disasters, eh? Now that I think about it, I seem to be a bloody magnet for them (but so far have escaped unscathed!). I was in Europe during the mad cow disease outbreak (so no blood donations for me in the US– I’m a Mudblood!), present during a direct typhoon hit to Hong Kong, also still living in Hong Kong during the major H5N1/bird flu epidemic in ’97, in Toronto during the SARS outbreak, and in Boston during the swine flu ‘crisis’. It was legend– a dental student had apparently come into contact with a suspected case, so they cancelled all the medical & dental school classes & all personnel were told to not come in. The best part of the email from the administration: “graduate students [that would be me!] should report to work as usual” [despite the fact that we share a bloody building with the med/dental students, and that they attend & pass the time between classes right in front of my lab]. Harvard clearly knows where its money comes from, haha.
Good heavens, Cris, you are a disaster magnet! Kudos to you for getting through them all. And thank you for the comments.
Read my book in the sunshine, and Allison’s in the dark….but you might want to keep the lights on! xo
I will definitely miss your blog and I truly enjoy ALL your books so please keep writing.
Thank you, Joyce! I intend to! xo
Oh darn, I hate to see you go! But I hope I’ll see you around the internet, at least whenever one of your books is released. I moved to Florida in 2004, just in time for four hurricanes that I had been assured never come to inland Orlando. Yeah, right. Luckily, my house came through like a champ, lost a few roof tiles and some screening, but many of my neighbors had large trees fall on their homes. My son’s roof collapsed into his guest bedroom and he lost power during one of the storms, but luckily he could come to my house so we were okay. It was definitely an experience for this California girl, and here I thought earthquakes were scary.
Those were some unsung hurricanes, Barbara. The 2004 storms weren’t as dramatic as Andrew, but by then we’d moved north and we were in the path again. We had to redo our patio and roof, but after what we went through with Andrew, it didn’t seem like much. One of those three storms (can’t remember which) was a dead hit to Satellite Beach — we evacuated for almost a week. So, we’re neighbors! Stay in touch and come to a STAR meeting or a booksigning sometime! (I’m signing in Altamonte Springs in early June – huge deal. See you there!) xo
Oh Rocki, I’m sad to see you go but completely understand! You will be missed.
My only disaster stories include earthquakes and fortunately we came out just fine. But I experienced both the Landers quake (1992 was a 7.3) and the Northridge quake (1994 was 6.7). I lived in Palm Springs at the time so the Landers quake was just up the road and felt HUGE. My husband was in the Marines and was tossed from his top bunk in the barracks. Then he spent days taking water to those in the disaster area. And if I had my choice, I’d take an earthquake any day over a tornado or hurricane. There is no warning and you just deal with it without the buildup. Can you tell I’m an earthquake veteran?
Again, I am sad to see you go. I will be in Cocoa Beach in August and was planning to have a toast to Jessica and Deke, so I’ll add a toast to you too, Rocki! I wish you all the best in your future endeavors.
Heather, I’ll be here in August, just minutes from Cocoa Beach. (Sight of all that SPACE IN HIS HEART love!) Please get in touch with me so we can have a toast — I’d love it! xo
I am really glad that I found MSW before you left. I discovered a really great author. Good luck with all of your deadlines and thanks for the giveaway!
Thanks, Jen! We’re glad you found all of us, too! xo
Just discovered this site a little while ago and I will miss your posts! I enjoy your books and look forward to the new ones. Good luck with your deadlines!
Congratulations on the book! I’ve enjoyed your posts. You’ll be greatly missed. Good luck with everything!
I will miss reading your blogs on MSW and look forward to reading more of your wonderful stories.
I don’t like goodbyes, so just a farewell, adieu from me.
Too many close call disasters in my life – I will make myself cry.
Cheers to the future, my dear!!
Another stellar blog, Rocki! I’ll miss you in the blogosphere!
Wishing YOU all the success in your heart!
Love,
Rachel
Oh my. I’m trying not to get weepy. I have enjoyed your posts so much, but I know deadlines are daunting and it so easy to get distracted. I will of course follow you through your newsletter–
Thank you for all the posts– it’s been so cool getting to know you.
I’ve endured several hurricanes and floods in New Orleans & Houston, dust storms in West Texas, tornadoes in Wichita and
here in East Texas, along with ice storms, and tons of power outtages. None as bad as you experienced, Rocki.
And I’m glad you’re still here to tell us stories! Will miss your blogs, but will keep reading your books! Thanks for all the entertainment you’ve provided, and sharing a bit of yourself with your readers!
I’m sorry to see you leave…but glad I got to know you a little bit!
Wishing you all the best in the future. XO
Oh, forgot to say that surviving cancer for almost 14 years trumps all the other stuff, lol. XO
Go out of town for a few days and catch up to this … you’re leaving MSW. I remember when you posted your first “official” blog entry. I shall miss you. (We managed to be in Orlando for Andrew, but then a few years later, 4 hurricanes crossed central Florida. However, we escaped unscathed, due for the most part to the orientation of our house and street. Others were not so lucky)