Is there any better feeling than accomplishment? Oh, I know, there’s crazy hot sex, chocolate covered potato chips, and that first sip of ice cold chardonnay at the end of a tough day. All pretty good stuff, but for me, meeting and beating a daunting challenge is one of life’s ultimate highs. That’s why I’ve been walking around with a loopy grin for the past few days, punching my fist in the air when I’m not patting myself on the back.
I just finished revising a manuscript. Sounds simple enough, right? A routine accomplishment for a career author, especially when you consider that this was my 30th book. But nothing about this revision was routine. A few months ago, I blogged about fast drafting this manuscript, which is titled Barefoot in the Rain and will be the second in my new Barefoot Bay series. My editor loved the story, I’m happy to say, but also had some absolutely brilliant insights on how to make the manuscript stronger. One of her suggestions had to do with the backstory and the idea really resonated with me…even though it changed the entire book.
Okay, the revision note maintained the the essence of the story — we never even had to rework the sales catalog copy I’d submitted — but “how” that story unfolded changed completely. Revisions tend to have a domino effect — every change can mean another change and all those changes impact characters, motivation, story arc, plot points, conflict, scene order, emotional revelations, turning points, and darn near every line of dialogue and introspection. Still, I wanted Barefoot in the Rain to be all that it could be, even if that challenged me on every level.
I started the rewrite on February 1 after an editorial call to clarify some points and several hours of highlighting and annotating the revision letter.
I took the marked up manuscript, laid the first ten chapters out on the floor and shared it with one of my readers. “Bow wow, Bacon Lady,” Pepper said to me. “You need a whole new opening scene. No, scratch that. You need a whole new book.”
You know how that felt? Well, have you ever been mountain climbing? Have you ever stood in the foothills and looked up at the summit of a mile-high mountain knowing you’d committed to reach the top and you’re just not sure you are made of the stuff you need to conquer that climb?
Neither have I. (I mean, really, have you met me? I don’t climb mountains! I shop!) But I imagine the climber is thrilled, scared, anxious, and pumped at the beginning…then ragged, exhausted, lost, and ready to quit about half way through…and finally high on altitude and the sweet taste of success as the end draws near.
That’s pretty much how the last 39 (but who’s counting?) days were for me. Some days were exhilarating because I knew I’d nailed the emotion; some days were dark and difficult because I veered off the path or stumbled into scene after scene I had to cut. I admit to a few tears, a lot of prayers, and the occasional bad word. But when I dragged my sorry behind up to that summit (AKA the Epilogue) I felt I’d finished one of the most powerful, most emotional stories I’ve ever written. I reveled in that marvelous sensation of having accomplished something extraordinary.
When I stabbed that flag of glory into the highest peak (okay, I just hit send, but you get the idea), I was on top of the world.
Throughout this difficult climb, I learned a lot about myself, about storytelling, and about these characters. For example, I learned that I can not write a love scene until I truly understand the hero and heroine’s deepest, darkest emotions. I realized last week, when I was rewriting a love scene for the bajillionth time, that in my last five manuscripts, the scenes I revised the most were the love scenes. I change the point of view multiple times, adjust the setting, restructure the dialogue, even alter what they do and how often they do it. Because that scene isn’t about sex, it’s about the character’s fears and hopes and a lot of times I just don’t know what those are until I’ve finished the book.
I also learned I’m good for one chapter a day (about 12 -15 manuscript pages) — in revisions, not fresh writing. After that, my brain is mush, my vocabulary is the equivalent of a second grader’s, and anything I write will need to be completely rewritten the next day. But that means a thirty-four chapter, 100,000 word book can be done in six weeks. (No days off, ever.) For those of you trying this at home, remember: this was a revision. I’d already written the equivalent of a 65,000 word synopsis.
I learned that the journey cannot be undertaken alone. Unlike the “fast draft” which I did (twice) for this manuscript, a true revision requires at least one other set of eyes to help you see where you may have veered off track and/or suggest ways to fix story problems. Ideally, this person is an editor, but a rock solid critique partner or beta reader can be an excellent guide up the mountain, even if all they do is carry the water. With me on this climb was my beta reader, our own MSW regular commenter Barbie Furtado, who did far more than water duty. She read scenes, chapters, and A WHOLE MANUSCRIPT (minus the last two scenes — how mean am I?) overnight.
And you also can’t climb that mountain without some really understanding, funny, supportive and loving friends who will let you call or email daily (hourly?) to quit cry for help drunk dial talk about how great it’s going. (I beg you, please buy every book ever written by Louisa Edwards and Kristen Painter. Ever. Go, off to Amazon, now. I’ll wait.) I also kept a running commentary/update on my FB author page and got a ton of encouragement from readers who shared the ups and downs of this process.
I also discovered I have some serious writing crutches. Like the word just, and the over use of italics, and the phrase “He just stared at her.” Oh…and…ellipses. Sometimes I think my name should be Roxanne St…Claire and my default reaction line is: He…just…stared at her.
Lessons learned, mountain climbed, and the difficulties of the journey are forgotten while the sense of satisfaction lingers. Now all I have to do is get down the other side…also known as copyedits! Another blog!
So let’s talk triumphant achievements! What is something you’ve done that’s given you that deep sense of accomplishment and satisfaction? What challenge have you faced that felt like a climb up the Matterhorn, but you made it? Let’s celebrate success!
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Congrats on finishing your revision. This has been a tough week for me so my mind is mush trying to think two accomplishments that come to mind is one I wrote a short story and came in second place in a author’s contest. and I always get the accomplishment when I finish a cake for someone and it turns out to look like it should sometimes while decorating it I’m thinking this is never going to turn out and yet they do.
Michele – sorry the week’s been brain-mush tough. I know the feeling. Congrats on the contest placement and feel free to bake me a cake anytime! xo
Let me start by saying I don’t feel like I have reached the absolute top of the mountain yet! But my biggest sense of accomplishment is survivng my husband’s death — he was 44, I was 36, and we had 2 small children. That was 13 years ago.
We had a fantastic marriage and were just as happy as we could be — always ups and downs, but we were together and looking forward to raising our family.
My kids are 16 & 18 now and they are amazing people! Every time someone tells me I did a great job raising them, I tell them that we raised each other. We were all novices on this very emotional, rocky journey. I didn’t always want to survive it. But sharing life with these 2 young adults is a joy! I am often in awe of them.
I guess our life journey is all about the people in it — in that sense, I am so blessed! And I think I may have gotten way too heavy first thing in the morning, but since my weight loss has been on and off, I can’t say that climbing THAT mountain has been a tremendous success yet!
Can’t wait to read the new series!
Oh, Rose. Huge hugs to you on the loss of your beloved husband and WOW being a single mom is so hard. You have all my love and respect. You most certainly have made it up the mountain…but there’s a whole range ahead. View looks gorgeous and I know you’re up to the challenge. I’m sorry for your loss, sweetie. xo
Great post, Rocki! I cannot wait to read these books!
Thank you, Deb! xo
That is an absolutely amazing journey! I solemnly swear that I will savor every word of this book when it comes out. (okay, I already do that with all of your books, but this one will be even more precious). I am totally grateful for you never giving up on this or any other story you’ve written because I absolutely adore reading them all!
Aww, Kris!! Thank you! I love solemn swearing! I hope you adore the story! xo
And that’s why your love scenes are so emotional. Good job!
Thank you, Mary! That is SUCH a compliment! xo
But you made it and I think that we all are going to benefit from your efforts. I cannot wait to read it!!! Fabulous post! smiles…
Thanks, Christi!! I really hope you love this one! xo
In the fall my doctor told me I would have t suffer with my osteo=arthritis unless I changed my life style;so I took his advice; I have lost almost 20 pounds, walk every day and eat a whole lot healthier. It’s been hard, cooking for my family yet not touching it and some days I feel very resentful; but it’s my health we’re talking about and I will continue.
Diane – 20 pounds is a HUGE accomplishment. So, so hard when you have to cook for others, too. (Have you watched the show FatChef? These are chefs who have to lose weight, but can’t leave their jobs. I’ve found it very inspiring!) Congrats to you! xo
Can’t wait to read this new series!!! I kept up with your progress on twitter, so I know how excited you were to type “The End”.
I had a breast cancer scare about 2 years ago. A lump was found when I went back for an ultrasound. The lump was removed and wasn’t cancer, but the cells around it were iffy. Now I get to have at least 2 mammograms a year and am working to keep my weight at a healthy level.
Oh, Liza, that is a daunting mountain. Good for you for early detection. Love, hugs, and prayers to you. Thanks for following! xo
I love every word you write and find it amazing that you write them all so many times! Like the other readers said, this blog will make me savor your writing even more!
My recent success: 10 pounds gone and I’m down a size! Woot!!
Good job, Marla! And thanks for being such a loyal reader! xo
The first thing that popped into my head was learning to walk again after my accident. There were days when I thought I’d never be able to do it. Hell, there were people who told me I’d never walk right again. Feh. I did it despite the naysayers. So there. =op
In reality, though, it was re-learning everything I’d lost because of the head injury. I didn’t even realize I was climbing a mountain there until I looked back at the path I’d taken. It was long and steep, and even after 18 years, I’m still climbing.
Eighteen years is some mighty climb, B.E., and quite an accomplishment. Your post gave my chills. Congratulations and love! xo
Big successes / accomplishments? Earlier in my life, I would have said when major projects “went live” and were successful. After some hard life lessons, my pride and sense of accomplishment revolves around my kids.
I say kids, but they are 19, 18, and 15. I am so proud and thankful for who they are as people. Plus I get so excited over their accomplishments. I don’t pretend that my husband and I parented these amazing gifts ourselves. They’d be a mess if that were the case. My kids are God’s children and He raised them, but I’m so thankful for my role in their lives. They are the future. They are what’s important to me. Not my job, not my accomplishments, but their’s.
Oh, Cari, I so know how you feel about giving credit where credit is due when you have super accomplished kids. I know where mine came from and I thank Him every day! Good on you, too! xo
Soak up every moment of the Accomplishment High, baby! You totally earned it.
And the next person who whines to me about how much they hate revising is getting a link to this blog post.
LOL, Louisa. Link away and shut down those whiners.
And to say I couldn’t have done this without you (frantic text much?) would be a lie. xo
Wait. Back up and revise that last sentence there, Rock. LOL
See why I need an editor??? To say I COULD have done this without you would be a lie. Too many negatives!
I couldn’t have done this without you!!! xoxoxo
Let’s say that was just an object lesson to prove your point about a fresh pair of eyes. ; )
thanks for the motivation, rocki! i have about 10 days left on my own revision. i wish i’d read this at the start and taken some of your thoughts to heart then…will re-read before I begin the *next* monster revision for sure…
Aw, Sophie, you’re in the worst of it right now. The last ten days suck! But you’ll put one foot in front of the other and make it — you are a gorgeous writer and I know your revision will sing! Plus, you ARE a mountain climber-type. You know all about getting to the summit! xo
Awesome job and well done!! Looking forward to the new series. Sounds like a “reward” trip to the mall is in order!
Oh, Catherine, I like the way you think!! xo
My biggest accomplishment was when I walked across the stage and received my DVM. I was told many times during those 4 years of school that maybe I should just stop and find a different way to go. I was having to work while in Vet school and was told that is not how it is done, that students could not work and go to school. Twice I told professors.. ‘well if you want to pay my bills and supply me with food I won’t work, but until then yes I have to work.’ I learned to live on 4 hours of sleep and utilize every spare moment for studying. But yes I did graduate and love doing what I do. Now my spare time is used to read books for pleasure. Glad there are authors who work so hard for their readers.
And I’m glad there are vets out there like you! (So is Pepper!) Congrats! xo
I feel like I’ve climbed a whole mountain range in the last few years, but I’m pretty darned proud of myself. Just last night I gave a talk on “Growth through Divroce” at a support group and when I listed all I’d done over the past 3 years even I was surprised. And dealing with my December auto accident added another item (though I really wish I hadn’t had to climb that mountain). I bought a car all by myself and financed it and everything.
Roxanne St… Claire — LOL! I love it! And now I’ll just stare at the cover of the first Barefoot book cause I can’t wait to read it.
Dude, you climbed Everest twice, then hiked to Kilimanjaro and did that a few times, then tackled the Matterhorn and skipped over the Alps for fun. You are my hero. xo
My biggest accomplishment as of this date was earning my bachelor’s degree in 1998.My diploma means everything to me. I still may not brightest bloom but that cannot be taken away from ever. I know it’s not as exciting as giving birth or saving someone life but it was hard won battle for me. There were moments that I thought I would never finished the degree. And I would succumb to the pressures and the doubting Thomas’ of my world.
Congratulations, Nicole! That is a huge accomplishment! xo
I dont think I have reached the mountain top yet. Every time I think I’m there, something pops up on the horizon and ii have one more rock to scale. But at least that gives me another goal to reach.
As a reader, I’m not sure I ever thought how hard it must be to write a book that blends characters, action, locations, etc all together to make 1 great book. I mean how many times can you describe a love scene but make it personal to that particular book or set of characters. As a reader, all i know is that when it is written right, it is AWESOME. So thank you to all the writers out there for revison after revision, just to make the book perfect.
Rocki, I would LOVE to win a copy of your latest triumph.
Aw, Trish, thank you! Good luck to you and thanks for being such a great reader! You’re the kind of reader who makes all the work worthwhile! xo
I’m trying to win my battle agaist eating disorders. It’s hard and painful and you gotta do it everyday, but I know I can do it!
I pray you do and know you can! xo
Hey, you can do it. I know it’s hard, and it feels impossible at times, it feels stronger than you, but I promise you, it’s doable. If you can, it could be a good idea talking to someone about it, a professional, though, They could be a really good help with this one. Trust me.
I wish you a lot of luck!
Hey Rocki, so glad you made it through those 39 days feeling on top of the world. I learned a few things, and I completely understand where you are coming from when you talk about writing loving scenes. I found that if I don’t know the characters fully, the scene always seems forced, so I skip em. Once the characters are fleshed out, I think I will be able to tackle those again.
I can’t really think of any particular hurdle at this moment, but it’s been interesting and sad reading some of the comments posted today.
Peace and love,
Paula R.
Everyone’s mountain is different, Paula, and you know…(there are those ellipses again!) that’s what gives us perspective. xo
Parenting is huge but that is an ongoing mountain. A more immediate was my Ironman last July. 8 months of training derailed a few times of sinus infections but sheer glory at the finish line
You did an IRONMAN!?! WHOA. Color me impressed – that’s gotta feel amazing! Congrats! xo
I made a Broken Star quilt one time and my sister had tried this pattern with not much success and so when I made one and it came out pretty good. I had a great feeling of satisfaction to say I done it.
I’m not surprised you mentioned a quilt, Quilt Lady! I think I’ve told you I have a friend who quilts and we’re always comparing how much the craft is like writing! Good for you! xo
Well, my accomplishment IS mountain climbing—sort of. On a trip last fall, my sister and I climbed the Tybee Island (Georgia) Light Station, all 178 steps of it. (Or as she pointed out, “That’s 356 steps. You have to climb down, too.”) She and I both have severely arthritic knees, though we agree we’re still too young for that. Hers comes from too much dancing; mine is from an injury. Nevertheless, we tackled that Tybee “mountain” and had a breathtakingly wonderful view as our reward.
Congrats on Barefoot in the Sand. I’ve just added it to the TBR list.
Good for you, LSU! I’ve never been to Tybee, but I’ve heard it’s fabulous! Congrats on that success — and how wonderful to share it with your sister! xo
Congrats on finishing the climb, Rocki!
I’m looking forward to feeling that sense of accomplishment when I get the next book off to my editor.
Thanks, Lori. I know you are familiar with this particular feeling! xo
Congratulations on the book! And, what amazing women on the back-blog.
I’ve climbed many mountains surrounded by lots of valleys in the first half of my life and I’m proud of all I’ve accomplished. And, I’ve survived the failures and have moved past them. But, my very first thought when I read your mountain question was Roofing my house and painting the exterior.
A few years ago I found myself single again, with two young daughers, a dilapidated home, and very little budget. My dad and I roofed my entire house after stripping it down to the wood sheeting. It took a spring and a fall (we weren’t up to the Oklahoma Summer sun!) And, then I caulked and painted the exterior in 4 days before Thanksgiving that year.
I was out of my element to say the least, but I did it with help. And, even the help was a big deal, because before the divorce, I wasn’t very good at asking for help even when it was really needed.
Can’t wait to read the books. Good luck!
Oh, Marcia, what a great story! I love that you did that with your dad! Now, if we can just find you a dream man for your second chance at love…you’ll be a romance novel heroine! Don’t scoff — my sister is living proof! xo
Whoo Hoo!!!! Way to rock it – er – Rocki!! Can’t wait to read the finished product. It’ll ping that much more knowing what you went through to get it to us.
My biggest accomplishment right now (aside from the Emily win
) is paying down debt. After 10+ years of my mother’s declining and debilitating disabilities and illness, which started a month before my own unemployment in 2002, I’ve started to see years of maintaining status quo, haggling, tight money management, and slow, monthly payments begin to pay off. Last fall I paid off a retail CC & a large medical bill. Just in the first few months of this year I’ve already seen principals decline dramatically after years of payments and if all stays steady, two large bank CCs will be paid off in the next two years.
The release of stress as huge financial burdens ease is immense, more so b/c you become so accustomed to enduring, you don’t fully realize the weight until you print out that final zero balance, highlight it, and pin it to the wall for the world to see – and for you to remember.
It’s not learning to walk again (Huh-ZAH!) or surviving your young spouses’ death (amazing), just a pedantic step in life that we all deal with every day, but it makes such a difference when we can skip past it instead!
Debt is one daunting mountain, K, so getting it down to zero is a huge accomplishment. Congrats and don’t stop!!! xo
I completed NaNoWriMo this year. & very pleased…I must say!
Having done my first true fast draft on this book, I can honestly give you props for finishing NaNo – that is hard! Congrats! xo
The kids being well balanced individuals is my greatest accomplishment. We had to move around as a family a lot for my husband’s work. They had wonderful experiences but I worried about them not having roots. When they got to middle school aged I discussed with my husband about settling down in one spot. It would mean that they would get a good several years without the stress of a move before college, should they wish to attend. He took on freelance stuff instead of big projects, and I went back to work. The kids are doing great.
Good for you, LLL! Motherhood is a constant climb, but so rewarding — especially when you see all your hard work pay off with solid citizens. Congrats!! The world thanks you, believe me! xo
Aw, Rocki, thank you for the shout out!!!
As I’ve seen you bravely tackle your climb, all I can say is you’ve inspired me more than you can ever know, and you’ve taught me more than you can ever know. You’ve done such a huge job with the revisions, so many changes, so little time, that I’m always amazed by it, honored that you’ve let me in your process and humbled that you feel I’ve helped you somehow! You’re an inspiration to me in every way! I learn so much from you! BAREFOOT IN THE RAIN is definitely one of the strongest, powerful books you’ve ever written! I know it’s been hard at times, but the story is so wonderful and strong, I think it wouldn’t have come out otherwise
I wanna be like you when I grow up.
I’ve never accomplished anything, really. But you know my climb. You know I have a hell of a long way up. But tumbling back down isn’t an option anymore. It’s all upwards from now on, even if it’s painful and if it sounds impossible. I think I can make it, and I hope I don’t have to it alone
♥
Thank you, Barbie. You’ve been a ROCK to me this past month.
And now you can shut up about not accomplishing anything. You speak English better than I do…and you TEACH it — and it’s your second language. You have a baby sister who adores you, great friends, big dreams, and a PATH for happiness that you are on.
Thanks for all the pink notes on Joss & Will. xo
The only thing that comes to mind besides surviving teenagers is my recent weightloss. I’m not good with sticking with things long term. I signed up for this weightloss challenge last summer at the very last minute literally because i couldn’t decide if i could do it and not embarrass myself. lol 6 months later i was 5 lbs over the goal i had set myself which was 30 lbs. I am not at 41 lbs lost and just trying to maintain it. 20% of my body weight lost by Jan. 5th. I have never tried losing weight before either so i didn’t expect success or to stick with it. Something just clicked for me though. Might’ve been not wanting to disappoint my team but it worked. lol It feels good to wear skinnier clothes now too.
Love your post. You’ve got such a good attitude about things and can poke fun at yourself. That’s a rare quality these days. Can’t wait for the new book!
Lisa B
Wow, Lisa!!! 41 pounds and maintaining is AWESOME!!!! I’m so proud of you! Doesn’t it feel good to be healthy? Good girl! xo
Congrats on the revisions, Rocki! It’s a wonderful feeling.
Accomplishment? I hate technology. Learning a new program terrifies me. Serious terror, like curl up under the covers and beg for mercy terror. Even so, I downloaded Scrivener (the writing program), attempted to understand it, got lost, but instead of running away, I signed up for Gwen Hernandez’s Scrivener class. It just finished today. I have my next project loaded into Scrivener and I think I’m actually going to be able to customize it to fit my writing/research style and I’ll use it. That’s my plan, anyway.
Matterhorn? Finishing the third book in my Faerie series. I didn’t think I’d EVER get that story written. I signed the contract a couple of weeks ago and I’m starting edits, which hopefully will be few and far between and I’ll have a release date sometime this year.
Here’s to the new series and new accomplishments, Rocki! Cheers.
Congrats on signing that contract, Silver. You know, Scrivener scares me, and that is all. Keep us posted on your progress with it! xo
I thought I was the only just person out there. Bane of my existence. Hurdles, getting old books off Amazon so the new re-release, from a new company could go up. What a pain. But, it’s done. Carol
No, it’s not JUST you.
xo
When I presented a workshop at a writer’s retreat. Anyone who knew me back then knows I said if given the choice between speaking in public and getting shot in the head…just shoot me.
I ramble on and talk a lot in a group so people think I’m an extrovert, but the rambling is to cover up that I’m an introvert. So, giving a workshop was a trial by fire. Walking on hot coals might have been preferrable.
But I did it and I was so proud of myself that I couldn’t sleep that night.
Aww, Jill. I know that “I can’t sleep because I’m so proud of what I’ve done” feeling. Congrats!! xo
Keep on climbing that “mountain” Rocki. You can do it! I think no matter the goals you have, big or small it’s so important to make sure you have supportive people on your team. They can cheer you on and offer some meaningful advice.
I literally climbed a mountain with my friends. It was my first time and I didn’t think I was mentally or physcially cut out for it. Well, halfway up that mountain (several hours in) it was either keep climbing of go back down -very steep. I climbed and made it to the top! That was a thrilling moment and the view was refreshing. It also reminded me of how much I need to settle into a regular routine, not to lose weight but to simply feel better from the inside out. I believe a healthy body means a healthy mind.
Great story, Na! I really have climbed (small) mountains when I lived in California (we don’t have too many here in Florida!) and I remember the thrill of getting to the top. Good for you! xo
Congrats on the upcoming release, Rocki. I’ve lost a few pounds since the new year. It’s not a lot, but it was my goal especially after all that holiday food. Now I just have to keep it off.
That’s the tough part, Jane, but I’m sure you can do it! Thanks! xo
I’ve survived two different forms of cancer and thank God for that miracle!
Oh, Sue — you are blessed…and a blessing. Love you, xo
Rocki, you are so inspiring! The book (and whole series) sounds fabulous. I’ve been wanting to fast draft ever since Candace’s fab workshop. I think I’ll give it a try… ( I love those ellipses too!)
Thank you, Maria! The fast draft/hellacious revision process actually worked well. It wasn’t fun, but I didn’t jump off a cliff. Only wanted to a few times, LOL. xo
Rocki, you were so terrific in replying to an email I posted in 2006, when I said I had just typed THE END to a novel I’d worked on for 18 months (since joining STAR, actually). It was a few weeks after my husand died of a sudden heart attack and your encouragement still is a warm memory to me – and that feeling is still as tremendous as the accomplishment of finishing my first novel!
Aw, Priscilla – you are such an inspiration. Your joy and ability to find love again is truly the stuff that romance novels are made of. xo
I just finished Tom Clancy’s Locked on (864 pp.) In 6 days.
Ouch, that’s a lot of pages. Was it good? xo
Congratulations on your new book! I’d say organizing my whole closet.
Oh, darling, will you PLEASE come and organize mine? xo
The mountain in my life isn’t entirely mine to climb. My husband is a disabled veteran with MANY health issues. He was a Marine with plans to be nothing but a Marine for his entire career. He was injured then discharged ending his dream. After the military he ended up working labor jobs. When his disability became too much, we petitioned VA (not easy) to put him through Vocational Rehab. They agreed and five years later my ‘grunt’ husband graduated with a BA in business with a GPA of 3.8!
During those years I held down the fort, brought home the bacon and had 3 kids in the process. We molded our entire lives around his school schedule and health issues. When he graduated in 2007 I figured his accomplishment was mine too. We are a team and it took us both to get him to graduation.
He wanted to give back to his fellow veterans and originally worked as a veterans service officer. He is now an administrator at our local VA hospital and he makes a difference every day. I am so proud of him and all he has accomplished despite the challenges we both face with his disability. I feel he is not in this alone and when he is sick, we are both sick (metaphorically speaking). My heart aches for him and is proud of him at the same time.
Our mountain will continue to be in front of us for the rest of his life. But together we can climb it, crest it and take in the view!
Rocki- loved watching your progress on facebook. Can’t wait to read this series.
Oh, Heather, what a beautiful, romantic, tear-inducing testimonial. He’s lucky to have you and we’re all lucky to have him! Thanks so much for sharing! xo
Rocki, This as usual is a wonderful blog from you…and very inspiring…you’re always so willing to give such good insight and advice! I, like you, prefer editing over the initial writing but as I’ve reworked a couple of middle-grade novels, I realize that the editing isn’t as easy as I’d once thought. To make it sing, it has to be both – editing and writing… (Sorry, I had to keep doing this! LOL!)
Thanks, Judy! Yes it is both, no question about it. But I think writing and editing use two different sides/functions of the brain. I far prefer editing, LOL! Nice to see you here, thanks! xo
As always, Roxanne St….Claire, you amazed me!
I heeard part of this journey first hand from yiu,but loved hearing the wholestory!
And as I am now rewriting before a deadline, I’m reminded how hard yet amazing our job can be!
I too use look, glance, peer too much. I’m an Em dash whore and totally riding the ellipses train into the emotional lives of my readers. I…mean…what says emotion better than…this?
I. Cannot wait to read… Barefoot in the Sand!
XO,
Rachel
Aw, Rach. You are the best. I had a whole paragraph in this blog about the over-use of “looking” (and all various forms) but it was so long I cut that part. I’m with you, honey. And you, my friend, are a queen of eliciting emotion!! xo
I blame my types on my iPad!
Oh, you iPad users! LOL! xo
The sense of accomplishment I most recently recall was writing THE END to a novel I spent 18 months writing after joining STAR – and Rocki, you put the icing on the cake with your reply to my emailed announcement back then. I can still feel the warmth of that moment. Many thanks – again!
The End…two of the greatest words in the language! xo
My biggest sense of achievement in the recent past was job hunting for six months. I worked very hard at it, since I had no other choice really (it was that or starve), but when I finally got the call that I got the job that I was dying to get, it was such a euphoric moment. I felt like I had reached the top of the mountain for sure.
Congratulations, Barbara!! What a feeling to get the one you really wanted!
And can I just say…how did I miss finding a place for that word “euphoric” in this blog post? A perfect description of what I was writing about – thanks! xo
Rocki, this is a great blog. It makes me want to pull out a manuscript to slog through some revisions, just so I can feel that “climbed a mountain” feeling. There is nothing like that amazing feeling. Congratulations!
My accomplishment is recently taking the plunge and sending a submission to a publisher. The senior editor seems interested in my novella. (fingers crossed)
Wow, Brenda, that’s HUGE!!! Keep us posted – fingers crossed! xo
Congrats on finalising the edits & the upcoming release! Definitely adding it to the top of my TBR queue, which has truly reached epic proportions. I don’t actually need to read science papers, right?
I haven’t really climbed any (figurative) mountains–a few hills, maybe–but talk to me at the end of the year when I turn in & defend my doctoral dissertation, and I’ll definitely feel like I’m top of Mt. Everest! [coincidentally, I have been to Everest... just not to climb it
] Considering I write at a snail’s pace, I probably should’ve started writing that dissertation when I first became a postgrad ^^
[P.S. Ellipses are brilliant. Just sayin']
Cris – a dissertation is AMAZING. I’m in awe, and shall we call you Doctor? Of??? Congrats (in advance) – you’ll get it done! xo
Technically, my doctorate is in microbiology– but I have a feeling I’ll just end up being Dr. Beach Bum living somewhere warm & tropical and scuba diving. Clearly, I should’ve thought this through before I got started and gone for a Ph.D. in marine biology so I’d be getting paid to dive now
I started nursing school this past September and it has been way more demanding than I had imagined it would be, so finishing my first term was a big achievement for me. I’m wrapping up my second term next week, so that’ll be another achievement to add to my list
Good for you, Emily! I can’t imagine how hard nursing school would be – and when you graduate, you’ll be a life-saver, an angel, and a gift to so many! Well done! xo
Fantastic blog Rocki. Very inspiring. This was just what I needed to read at this point … timing is everything. Finishing my chapters to send off after such a positive response from the agent and editor at Star Super Saturday! Thank you, Thank you!
Fantastic, Debbie! I feel like we’ll be celebrating something very soon (cake!) and you certainly have earned it! Thanks! xo
Congrats on the revisions and the upcoming release! Yay! I’m looking forward to reading it. As for an accomplishment, mine right now is not quite done…but I’m getting there. I went back to school last Sept to get my paralegal certificate and I will be done on April 25th! I finish up a class next week, and then I have two more to finish before my last final next month. So, I’m getting there, and all the classes I have already finished are my mini-accomplishments along the way.
Wow, you’re so close! Good for you! What an awesome accomplishment and a great profession! xo
Congratulations, Rocki!! I love that feeling.
I hope you sit back and enjoy it. You deserve it. ((hugs))
Sit back? What is this sit back you speak of? LOL! Thanks, Syl. xo
My greatest accomplishment is going after what I want. I wanted to be a book reviewer, and instead of waiting around, hoping someone would come to me, I put myself out there and asked for what I wanted. I got it! I found that you have to have confidence in yourself and your abilities and you can’t lose. I have since used it again, and it hasn’t failed me yet! Now I need to find a man! Look out world!
Thanks for the awesome books!
Congrats, Jennifer! (Weren’t you at the writerspace chat?) I love when we get what we ask for…ask and you shall receive, right? Sometimes we’re too timid to ask. Good for you! xo
Congrats, Roxanne! QUITE an accomplishment, your 30th! May the next thirty be just as provocative, enjoyable, and (yes) challenging!
xx Josie
Thanks, Josie! I hope I have 70 more in me…I want to write 100 books in my lifetime! xo
I only fairly recently got my driver’s license. I am not a spring chicken anymore, not quite an old duck either.
LOL on the old duck. I bet you’re a great driver – congrats! xo
Great post! Life is all about those little accomplishments. I get a thrill every time I hit the magic button and send off a mauscript, get an acceptance email, or write something I didn’t think I could write and realize it’s not half bad. Thanks for your encouraging words.
Thanks, Naomi! Awesome to see you here! xo
Okay, I’m late because I was traveling home all day yesterday, then crashed … but I love this blog! I love finishing a book, particularly the revisions. Congrats, so, so, so happy for you … (and I love ellipses, too!) And obviously exclamation points today! Happy!
Oh, I was just reading your awesome post and noticed I had more comments. I love exclamation points, too! But rarely in my manuscripts…always in my emails! xo
I haven’t really had what I’d consider a great achievement. I’ve also had no great lows so perhaps I should consider myself lucky.
Oh, Anne, I bet you have more accomplishments than you are counting! xo
Congrats! Mine would be finishing college. It definitely had its challenges but I made it though. Hopefully one day I can have more but for now Im good with it.
College is hard! Nothing could ever induce me to do that again — congrats! xo
I bought my husband a big man’s recliner(he’s 6’4″) after he came back from his first deployment(kick off of the Iraq War). After the various military moves, 2 children, 200+lbs English Mastiff the recliner had seen better days. I called around to see how much it would be to reupholster it..$400-900! So my girlfriend and I did it ourselves this week for $46! It looks awesome, I saved a mess load of money and he loves it!
I love that story!! Can you and your girlfriend come and reupholster my furniture??? Congrats on a job well done! xo
I have to say mine was becoming a mother at 19. My husband proposed to me a week before my highschool graduation. People thought we were crazy and it would never work, but we were confidant in our love. I fough my family and friends to live the life we wanted. Finding out I was pregnant three months later was a schock and I was scared. My husband was my rock and he made me feel like I could do anything. When I had my son, I was a mess, I cried, I was scared and I had no idea what I was doing. I thought I was going to fail this little baby and I had no right being a mom. I struggle with depression after I had him. While all my friends were off at college, I was at home learning how to be a mom and a wife. Over the next several months I became comfortable in my roles and learned how much I loved it. 10 years and two other kids later, I look back at those early days and laugh. I didn’t think I had what it took to be a mom and never realized how natural it would come and how much I would love it
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Ahh, Rocki, this is one of your best posts evah. I feel like just staring at you… Just kidding. I can SO relate!
SO happy you’ve finished your edits (I SO hate edits!) Can’t wait for the Barefoot series!
CJ