I’m sitting here trying to figure out how it got to be mid-October already. Where did the start of the month go? Where did the year go. Where did the last three years go…? Which is how long I’ve been blogging at Murder She Writes as of October 6th. (Yes, it’s my three year anniversary, and I’ll be doing a giveaway to celebrate that.
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It’s about this time of year that I:
- start panicking about holiday gifts
- wonder which member of the family is hosting Christmas Eve this year and praying it’s not me
- looking at what I’ve accomplished so far in the year
- taking note of what’s left to accomplish before the year ends
- start preliminary thoughts about what needs to be done next year
Last year, I released two short stories. That was all I could manage after crashing and burning the year before that. All in all, I was down for the count for more than a year and there were many times when I wondered if my writing mojo was gone and it was time to reevaluate.
In the end, I did reevaluate. I learned that release dates weren’t as important as giving myself time to write the best book I can. I changed the way I schedule my books, thinking first about how much time I needed to write and also how much time I needed to live a life on the side to keep me a happy writer. It took me a few months to get in the right groove, but once I did, the magic came back to me. I’ll wrap up this year having released three single titles, four anthologies, and three digital novellas.
I’m excited about writing again. Not so long ago I told a friend I’d never be able to write a book in a month like I did at the start of my career. I couldn’t hit that “zone” anymore. I’ve since discovered that I can hit that “zone” again, and the words can flow like water, and I can be so eager to return to writing a book that I’m impatient to do so. Get out of my way, I need to write. So I’ll need to keep protecting that headspace, because now I know how fragile it is.
I’ll need to keep giving myself permission to read when the mood suits me or when I’ve reached a point in my MS that stumps me. I recently wrote a book in about 6 weeks. During that time, I read 8 single titles, 1 category book, and 2 novellas. Reading = writing for me, and I lost that a few years ago. I won’t lose it again. I started out this year with the goal of reading 26 books. One every couple weeks, I thought. I can do that. I’ve passed that goal already and next year I’ll raise it. A book a week maybe. I’d love to beat that.
So unlike the last couple years, I’m going to end this year satisfied with what I’ve accomplished and looking forward to what I hope to accomplish next year. It’s been a great three years here at Murder She Writes. I’m looking forward to the next three.
I’ve got THREE RT Convention tote bags to giveaway, each one filled with books/goodies/promo as they were for the convention. Just tell me what you think the “must-have” holiday gift will be this year in your house.
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I’m praying for a new laptop. My old one is slooooowing way down. Hoping to make some money on my Indie books to buy it for myself. (fingers crossed)
I end up replacing my laptop every couple years, so I started going with netbooks. Then I’m not so pissed when I have to buy a new one.
I think that everyone will want an
e-reader of one kind or another. I also think a tablet computer would be great but that is a bit too expensive to give at this time.
I’d be all over the new Kindle Fire if it had 3G. I travel a lot, so wi-fi alone doesn’t do it for me.
sylvia, you have always been a source of inspiration to me, even before we officially met! i’m a few years behind you in my development as a working writer, but I value your comments on how to stay energized, and i know they will come in handy.
hmmm. my must-have holiday gift…i think that just getting my boy home from college would do the trick
Sophie, thank you! You, too, are on a great clip with new releases this year. And they’re all so phenomenally good! You rock. ((hugs))
My presence at the parents’ house for the holidays! (I’m one of those people who’d rather be off gallivanting around the world than visiting the family for the holidays. Yes, I’m an absolute travel whore
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If that doesn’t count, one of the nifty new Kindles. My Kindle ownership has inspired the rest of the family to lust after an eReader
I have such crazy love for my Kindle. It’s what got back to reading again, which got me back to writing again. It’s precious to me.
Sylvia, I have always been amazed by your drive, energy, and creativity! I’m glad you’ve found the right balance. That’s hard to do sometimes.
Must have gift in this house? If the plumber doesn’t come between now and then, a new hot water heater! *sigh* But for fun stuff, I’m eying the new Kindle Touch. My 2nd generation Kindle is a bit worse for the wear. The Only is hoping for a successful defense of her Master’s thesis and a job! (ME TOO! Especially since both of them are unemployed at the moment.
) Besides money–ALWAYS a hotly desired gift–we’re looking at camera lenses for her. For her little hubby, not a clue. Same for Lawyer Guy. *sighs again* I’ll figure it out by Christmas Eve. LOL!
Sounds like you already have an initial list going! I’m jealous.
The “must have” holiday gift in my house this year will be a new laptop since my laptop is slowly dying right now.
Laptops… Why must they die so swiftly?
Sylvia, I am so there with you. After last year, I wasn’t sure I would ever enjoy writing again but here I am loving it!
I’m so happy to hear that, Deb. It’s a rare magic we writers can feel that no one else can understand. It’s precious. I’m glad you found yours again, too. ((hugs))
my niece and sister both really want an ipad. i am hoping that we will be able to get them each one.
Me, too!
Heres to another 3 years!!
I think the “want” item will be an ipad. However, I dont think anyone will actually get one. But Im sure there will be a couple new phones for some and some books, cds and clothes for others.
I’d be satisfied with the Kindle Fire, but I need that 3G. *grr*
An ereader or tablet which will be the first one in the family. It’s likely to be a dedicated ereader because while a tablet is fun and convenient we already have computers. I already have a bunch of ebooks on my TBR pile waiting to be read. However, I am just as happy to settle with print books. We just bought some bookcases and there’s a shelf or two waiting to be filled
I adore my Kindle. I couldn’t live without it anymore, but I also love my bookshelves and my keeper books. The way they look and feel and smell. I don’t read paper books anymore, but I collect them and love them.
Honestly, SOCKS!! My daughter has decided she loves my Under Arrmour socks and has appropriated them. So she will be getting a new sock “wardrobe” this year.
Otherwise, I’m eyeing a new purse from Brighton!
Glad you got your groove back. Write on =)
I haven’t heard of those socks! I’ll have to look them up.
I loved that post, Sylvia! So glad you found your mojo and are writing like the wind – that’s so inspiring! It also fits in well with what I’m posting tomorrow!!
My must have holiday gift: someone else buy and wrap all my presents. That would be HEAVEN to me!
BTW, we’re having Christmas Eve dinner here, as always. You’re WELCOME!! xo
My sister is wrapping goddess! Her presents are always so gorgeous you don’t want to rip them open because they’re too pretty. I wish I could get her to do all of mine…
Must have gift…lessee, Other than being a romance addict, I also am a video game addict – love the storyline most of them have. The third one in the uncharted series is coming out this year, and it features a hot looking hero.
Anything is better with a hot-looking hero.
Wow here’s to another 3 years!
The must have gifts this year is a new fridge since the old one is making strange noises and a new desktop computer.
*gah* My car is making strange noises. Of course, that’s because I’m married to an auto technician…
With the lower price of a Kindle I am hoping to get one for this Christmas.
The prices of ereaders are dropping fast. When I fly, it’s the rare person now who doesn’t have an ereader or tablet with them
The must have gift in my house? To have a place of my own, and not being dependent on the generosity of friends for a place to live. While it’s made the difference to me between literally being in a homeless shelter or on the streets, it’s still not the same as a place of your own, with your own things, your own life.
Later,
Lynn
Lynn ~ I’m wishing that for you with everything I have in me. ((hugs))
The ipad is a must have for us!!
I want one!
Definitely an ereader or tablet.
A whole new wave of readers will be lured to the electronic side…
Definitely the DVD for Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part 2…..though this holiday gift (for both my hubby and me) will probably be purchased on the day it is released next month.
Other than that, a regular holiday treat (gift) we get for Christmas morning every year is a 6 pack of the large Cinnabons. It is such a treat. YUM!
Oh my… those are delicious. Yum.
This year I’m easy: gift cards would make me happy! Being home for Christmas at my Dad’s would be nice too!
You can never go wrong with gift cards…
iPads for sure!!
You’re killing me.
An e reader is what is wanted most this year.
For sure! Love my Kindle. Love, love, love it.
A trip with my husband would be the best gift ever. Time together.
That sounds awesome. I hope your wish comes true!
I’m hoping for an iPad or Kindle Fire.
Me, too! *g*
Congrats on a great productive year Sylvia and three here at MSW!
I really really want an Ipad but I don’t think that will happen. My “must have” is a really sexy pair of boots!
Definitely more in the right price range.
There’s nothing like a kick-ass pair of boots. It’s a game changer in attitude and appearance.
Would opt for a new copy of Winter Solstice, by Rosamunde Pilcher (gave mine away), to recenter me on the holidays’ core purpose.
I hadn’t heard of that book. I’ll have to look it up.
Anything would be nice i’m not picky. I usually end up buying my on gifts because I usually don’t get anything for Christmas.
I buy some gifts for myself and give them to hubby to wrap them up for me. Fact is, he’s a terrible gift giver. He’s not observant enough to catch other people’s preferences and he has the worst memory ever. So instead of him wasting money on something I don’t want, I get what I do want and he gives it to me and we’re all happy.
hmmm…. for me, its usually books. i love them!
my family either gets me them or gets me giftcards. ;P
Gift cards are awesome!
That’s easy. I just found my dreamy gift. It is book organizing software. I just use the UPC reader and all of my books are organized. I can print reports. So exciting! AND, it can track and organize my ebooks too! OMG!
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What is it called? It sounds awesome.
Here is the link:
http://www.collectorz.com/book/
I think I am going to have a really fun New Year sort and organizing all of my books! I am such a dork….
For my (grown) kids–money! For the grandkids, books and art supplies. For me (fingers crossed) a new laptop. For Hubby, golf something!
Laptops. The joy and bane of our existences.
new iphone for adults
money for all else lol
happy hoildays all
congrats ont eh books
Thank you, Kim!
I don’t know about “must-have”, but I have made library bags for just about everyone I know. So it’s a case of “will have” really.
I just got my kindle. Took a cross country trip with my hobby and read most of the way. Now I want to get my son and granddaughter (both avid readers) an e-reader. I just need gift certificates to download books.
a flat screen tv and a wireless printer
I’d love the new Kindle Fire with touch screen. Less expensive than the I-Pad I want.
I have had my computer since ’05 so now I am trying to decide on what to get. I pad, or notebook or another desk top.
Honestly if I’m being perfectly selfish I’d love to have an Ipad so I can take my Turkish homework with me in digital format.
However for others in the family I am getting a Kindle Fire for my sister.
The best Christmas gift this year though would be having my husband and I in the same country for once and actually living under the same roof for more than two weeks.
It’s be a delight to have you back with your books and I too am a complete nut for my Kindle, I can’t live without it and it goes with me no matter where in the world I am going.
yes i agree…not getting the kindle fire cuz of the lack of 3G but looking into some netbook, notebook, laptop or tablet with both…any suggestions..it will be a gift for me and also buying one for college kid…
My sibling and two friends will be welcoming new additions to the family very late this year. I think that the “must have” gift to them will be offers of free babysitting. They each of them have two children already.
Probably an eReader. Or for those who already have one, GC’s for downloads.
i want a Kindle
since that robot movie of hugh jackman, probayl lots of robot toys
money or gift cards, since my kids are all nearly gone but i have a granson and daughter so lots of princess stuff for grandaughter , robot for granson
If i had to guess i could put iphone 4 a ereader of some sort and the new Wii if it comes out before Christmas. Toys for kids i have no idea right now. The commercials are starting though already. lol
Lisa B
I think it is different for all my kids. My daughter is in want of a Doodle Bear, as of today. It changes daily with her, I can’t keep up. My middle son is desperate for a Nintendo D.S. and an I pod. My oldest wants a cell phone and a connect for the x-box. I on the other hand want a Kindle Fire. My husband, who knows
He’s an impulse buyer so he always buys whatever his little heart desires for the moment