My two year anniversary here at MSW falls in between this blog post and my next, so I’ll stretch out the celebration over the next couple of weeks.
This week, one commenter will win an autographed ARC of Shayla Black’s upcoming ENTICE ME AT TWILIGHT, the fourth title in her Doomsday Brethren series.
This past MSW year (Oct-Oct) has been a pivotal one for me. After three years of insanely writing every waking moment, I crashed and burned in 2009, which led to me being unproductive for most of the year. By the time I dug myself out of the hole I’d collapsed into, I realized my forward momentum had skid to a halt when I stopped pushing. I still had contracts to fulfill, so I knew I would still be releasing books, but I’d lost a beloved editor at one house and negotiations with my other house had come to a standstill. The projects I had left on my plate weren’t ones I expected the publisher to seriously get behind, which meant there was nothing for me to get behind either. I worked on a couple proposals, but they didn’t go anywhere. I feared I’d lost my salability along with my writing mojo. I was left facing a choice that would have been inconceivable to me just a year before–put aside my ambitions and leave the business when my contracts were up, or keep trying to get back on my feet.
It wasn’t an easy decision to make. Both choices looked vastly appealing depending on the day and how well (or not) my writing was progressing. Financial pressures at home and my son’s diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome added to the mix. My friends and agent got me through that rough time, inspiring me to keep taking baby steps forward. By some mad twist of fate (and a lot of blood, sweat, and tears) I’ll be ending 2010 with three new editors and multiple new series in the works, one of which went to auction. I went from feeling cursed to feeling blessed in the span of this past year, but really it’s not so black and white. The road ahead is still an uphill climb and I’m still limping along, recovering my lost passion for writing slowly but surely.
So this past year has been a transition year for me, one in which I released no new books. I received galleys in the mail the other day and it was such a joy to see them. It’s been a long time. The whole process of nurturing a book through production feels almost brand new to me. I’ve decided that’s what this last year was meant to be–a wake up call of sorts. An admonition to enjoy the gift of doing what I love for a living. A kick in the ass meant to remind me that things were a little too easy for me in the beginning and this career isn’t meant to be easy. It’s meant to be damn hard, with terrible lows and astonishing highs, and lots of dues to pay. You have to hit the lows to really grasp the beauty of the highs.
I’m still working on taking better care of myself so I don’t burn out again. I eat better and exercise more. I make it a point to read more. I rewarded myself with a new Kindle, which arrives tomorrow. I can’t wait. I have a backlog of digital books and manuscripts to read. I also have a brand new year ahead of me. Looking forward to next October, I wonder how I’ll be summing up this year and what I’ll be sharing with you then. Where will I be? Where will you be?
How have the last twelve months been for you? Are you having a golden year or building up to one? Thank you for spending part of your days here at MSW. It’s a wonderful corner of cyberspace because of you.


















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Wow, Sylvia, it seems it’s been a real roller-coaster year for you. I’m glad it’s ending on the high part of it
Happy MSW anniversary.
This last twelves months, for me, were full of ups and downs, too. Some of the most amazing and the most heartbreaking things happened over this last year (anything ranging from dreams coming true to death in the family). I’ve met a lot of wonderful people, lost some wonderful people, too, had classes I absolutely hated, classes I absolutely loved, got amazing opportunities when I wasn’t expecting, had long term plans go wrong, got a boyfriend, broke up with the boyfriend, all these things that are part of life. Among everything, there were a lot of amazing things and people I’ll treasure forever.
Right now, these last two and a half weeks, have been SO FULL of ups and downs — the greatest roller-coaster of this year. It’s been such emotional few weeks, with a whole lot of “OMG, this is awesome!” and “NFW, I can’t believe this happened.”
I’m still waiting to see how this all turns out
Barbie,
One thing I’ve found is that everything happens for a reason. I wish we knew what that reason was from the outset, but we so often have to wait it out to see the ‘why’ of things.
I hope everything works out for the best for you sooner rather than later!
2009 was an exciting year. I think it was because of all the travel I got to do and all the friends I got to see.
2010 has been a pretty good year as well. I got to travel to see my friends and work has been active but also good.
Thanks for sharing your rollar coaster ride and I am glad you seem to have gotten your mojo back. I know when I went through a time at work where I felt bored or nothing was getting my fire going, it really effected home life too. It was really bringing me down, almost depressing like. Our work has such a big impact on our lives. Good job at working at taking care of yourself. I’m gonna start that too so that the burn out doesn’t happen.
Take care, PS – you’re gonna love your Kindle! I loooove mine and it goes everywhere with me!
Michelle,
I’m so glad to hear you’ve been having a great year. I hope next year is even better still!
I’m excited about the Kindle arriving.
I second the I’m glad you got your mojo back and found the joy, or at least not the “I HAVE to do this” aspect of writing that can take over.
I traveled a lot in 2010 and still have 3 more conferences/trips to get through. It’s been a busy writing year, way busier than I can handle sometimes, so I fear that burn out stage, and use your experiences, as well as other writers I admire, to push me through it, or convince me to slow down.
Congrats on all the stuff in the works!
Traveling! It seems I’m away from home more and more every year. Take good care of yourself. Pamper yourself every once in a while, and make take to do nothing (and read). It’s amazing how charging uninterrupted reading time is.
Crazy year — house on market, finally sold, moving, finding house, moving in, trying to keep up the writing, conferences, remodels. And I just got back from the FANTASTIC Writers’ Police Academy in Greensboro/High Point, NC and don’t know where to start playing catch up–plus I’m leaving again in a few days for the Emerald City Conference.
(And just a heads up–it’s Banned Book Week)
Terry
Terry’s Place
Romance with a Twist–of Mystery
Moving is crazy stressful.
I’m envious of your writers’ police academy trip!
It was great – I’ll blog about it eventually, but for now you can see pix on my FB page.
Terry
Terry’s Place
Romance with a Twist–of Mystery
Wow! You have been through a lot this past year!! Just keep on plugging along, and things will get better!!
This year had been a little expensive for us! My vehicle died, my fridge died, my oven died!! Plus one of my beloved scotties had to have surgery (minor, but still scary!) – my finances have been stretched to the limit. But, my hubby and I still have our jobs and our health, so next year has to be better!
When it rains, it pours. Insane how that works. Moderation would be nice, but then we might not have those times when everything is fabulous.
I’m glad your dog is okay!
Happy 2 year anniversary!!!
Thank you.
Oh, Sylv! What a year you’ve had. One of my dearest friends has Aspergers as does the oldest son of my CP. Living with and loving an Aspie can get…interesting.
This year, both my books and my novella released so an incredible high but with it came disappointments as I still work toward achieving “loftier” dreams–an agent and a multi-book contract. In the midst of revisions and production tasts, I didn’t write as many new words as I wanted and now I’m a little off track and easily distracted. Now that the dog days of summer and their lethargy are over, I hope the crisp exhilaration of Autumn will get me back on track!
Your talent and perseverance is an inspiration. Your wit and wisdom are always appreciated here. Happy anniversary and my you celebrate many more here at MSW!
The easy distraction is a killer. So much of the business of writing takes away from the creative side of it.
I’m looking forward to Fall, too. I can’t believe how swiftly this year has gone by!
Wow, what a year! I’m so glad you re-discovered your writing groove. Looking forward to the upcoming stories you’ll be sharing with us all. As for me, this past year I’ve been working at a dizzying pace trying to keep up with deadlines, etc… It’s been some adjustments and taking a serious look at priorities, which is good to do from time to time. I finally feel like I have my head on straight. Let’s see how long that lasts!
I’m glad you’re feeling grounded! Take good care of yourself. Make time to stop and enjoy your accomplishments, the big and small. It’s important and you deserve it!
Well, up until summer rolled around, I was having a good year… then summer hit and it’s like it hit me with a sledgehammer and I’m still trying to scrape myself off the ground.
I finally feel like I’m on my feet at least and I’m doing what I can to keep from feel so pulled in fifty different directions, but yeesh.
O.o It’s so easy for us to get too caught up in the BIZ of writing… and not focus enough of the writing, ya know?
Totally. I really miss the early days of my career when I wrote more than I did anything else. Nirvana.
Syl, you’re really amazing. I don’t think you have any idea that you have the energy, drive and talent of three people put together. You needed the year to refine your goals, AND to grab the reins of your career. We all know that feeling of things sliding out of our control.
Happy two year anniversary at MSW!
My year or year and half, has been interesting. I’m learning that I am capable of really stretching in what I’m writing–but the time investment to do it is a huge price. Only time will tell what the return on my time investment will be.
I don’t feel amazing. LOL But thank you. ((hugs))
Stretching our writing wings can be painful, I know. It’ll pay off for you, I have no doubt. You’re already a wonderful writer. More of that can only be awesome!
Hopefully you have learned where your breaking point is and can now see it coming and head it off before you get overwhelmed again.
The past year pretty much sucked for me . Husband got new job and we had to move from an educated town (lived there 18 years) to a small town with small minds. Two months after getting here my husband got viral pneumonia and almost died (he is a heart transplant, 7 years out). He is doing great now. My youngest girl (9) has become depressed since we moved and we had to start her on Zoloft. Dad had prostrate cancer (his is fine now). The list goes on and on .
Looking forward to Fall. Fall renews me with all the colors and cold air. Onto better and brighter things!
Moving can be so hard, especially when you move to a place where you aren’t happy. I hope things look up for you soon. ((hugs))
Happy 2 year ann.
Thank you!
What a wonderful and courageous woman you are. Thanks so much for sharing. We’ve had a rough year with multiple family issues keeping us emotionally unbalanced. Sometimes, just knowing other folks are successfully climbing out of their own pit helps tremendously. Congratulations on making it this far. Take care of yourself and your family.
I don’t feel all that courageous, but thank you. ((hugs)) You reminded me of a quote about courage:
Take care of you. I can’t stress enough how important that is. I’m wishing good things for you and your family.
Happy 2 year anniversary. It has been a year of ups and downs for me. Lost a dear loved one, my dad had cancer surgery and is still in the hospital but on the positive side my adorable nephew was born in July.
Loss and birth so often happen close together. I’m sorry for your loss and offer congratulations on the safe arrival of your nephew. I hope this upcoming year brings you less downs and more ups. You deserve it.
Sylvia, I’m so sorry this has been a rough year for you. We have been thrilled to have you as part of MSW, and you have always inspired me because you are both committed and one of the hardest workers I know. You bounced back, and I think you’re too stubborn not to
(I say with completely and total love and affection!)
This has been a hard year for me as well, and it’s going to take a little more time to bounce back. We’ll have to drink together (again) at National.
Allison – Thank you.
Having friends to share the ups and downs with makes all the difference in the world. I look forward to having that drink with you. God willing, we’ll be toasting and celebrating something!
Sylvia, it’s two years for you? Me, too! My first blog post here was October 7, 2008.
Wow, it has been a year for you. If *anyone* thinks “life gets easy” after publishing, they should read your blog. I love your fortitude and tenacity, your willingness to acknowledge when it’s time to refill the well, your talent and gift for reinvention. You are an inspiration.
This past year has been one of writing. Writing. More writing. I’ve written three books in the year, and with revisions, I’ve written each of them twice. I also wrote a proposal and sold a YA – a genre I never dreamed I could crack! I haven’t taken a vacation with my family since the RWA in Washington (that’s 14 months ago) and it is time to refill my well, too.
Thanks for the reminder and the inspiration! xo
Rocki – thank you ((hugs))
You’ve got fabulous books coming out. Make sure you enjoy the release of every single one of them. Celebrate over and over again, in dozens of different ways. It’s my belief that the harder we work on a book, the more we need to celebrate it. Checks and balances, ying and yang, and all that good stuff. I’ll have a toast with you cross-country!
Wow, what a year. I’m happy to hear it’s on the upswing and things are going well.
I’ve had a challenging year myself, I’m out of work for the first time in 38 years and it is really scary, but I’m trying to stay positive – the hope is that I will end up with something even better than what I had.
Yes. Everything happens for a reason. You were meant to move on to something bigger and brighter. I’m rooting you on!
thank you so much for sharing this. you’ve been an inspiration for me for a long time and never more than now. I have respect for anyone who finds herself at a low point, takes the time to assess and contemplate and take care of herself, and then comes back again to do her job.
This has been a weird couple of years for me. In some ways, they’ve been the best ever – I fulfilled my dream of being published and ended up with books to write for the next few years – but in other ways they have the been the hardest years of my life. These days I’m just very grateful to have my work as a distraction and a comfort.
I have also learned this year that no career is ever “safe”, but on the flip side, no career is “over” either as long as there is passion for the writing. It’s HARD – that much it seems everyone agrees on. But I’ve learned from the MSW crew that it’s at least as rewarding as it is difficult.
This past year I started college and I am working towards my degree in elementary education.
I am so sorry you had a tough year but glad you have worked through it and are going uphill now. And really that’s what life is all about, one foot forward two feet back
I have had a mediocre year, no highs and no
lows other than a death in the family; my kids are finally settling down to find their own way in the world, we’re getting older with aches and pains we did not expect, but that’s life.
Your post was an inspiration. I’m sorry you had a tough year, but I appreciate you sharing it. This has been a tough year for me, too. Crazy and chaotic. It started with driving home and seeing my husband’s wreck (he was okay but scared me a lot!), closing a business, having my grandmother get sick and my aunt having a successful double lung transplant. That with almost losing my passion for writing nearly brought me down. But sometimes it takes those things to find ourselves again. I commend you for sharing your story!
It has been a hell of a year! And we’re still standing. Now hang on tighter, coz the ride is going to get crazier!
And bring more wine!!
What a difficult year you have been through. Glad things are improving.
My year has been manageable. I am grateful to have a job and to have been promoted a couple of months back.
It’s been a good and bad year. My daughter had her third child in June so that was great. I lost my stepfather this month so not good. So it’s been a so-so year. I’m hoping the next one is better.
So far I’ve had a very good year and it looks like it’s going to be good for the rest of the year too.
Happy Anniversary!
This year has had it’s ups and downs. I can’t say it’s been the best year but it hasn’t been the worst either. I am a true believer that things happen for reason and I am truly hoping next year will a better year.
Ordered chaos. I’ve been trying to accomplish things that just haven’t happened. And the harder I try, the harder situations seem to get. I’m gearing up towards the year ahead. I have aspirations which I’m going to approach with two keys in hand: determination and relaxation. I’m more than willing to burn up the burn out I’ve experienced since leaving college.
Happy two year anniversary – and hopefully the rough won’t outshine the good any time soon.